Sometimes the young are not satisfied with the answer "yes" to the question "Do you take him (her) in husbands (wives)?", The bride and groom certainly want to say the words of the vow. But more often it does not happen, yet the tradition of the wedding vows of the bride and groom is western, and it is not very common among us. Although it's not forbidden to do this at a wedding, so let's figure out when to say these important words, and what exactly should be in the wedding vow.
The oath of the bride and groom at the wedding: when to pronounce?
All wedding vows can be conditionally divided into ceremonial (including religious ones) and comic. The first can be pronounced both in the registry office and at the festive table. But comic vows, probably, it is better to leave for a warm company, when competitions and entertainments for guests begin. Although no one will forbid you to utter a solemn oath, which will cause tears of affection from parents and friends, in the registry office and again to repeat its comic variation at the festive table. Many people think that an oath is something intimate and you can not pronounce it with a large crowd of people. On the one hand it is certainly true, but who prevents you to repeat many and many times all the tender words and alone? A wedding is that, do not say a visual demonstration of your feelings, and among those invited who are ready for you to rejoice. So give them such an opportunity, let moms and girlfriends be moved, cry, and you will remember this moment, as one of the most beautiful and romantic.
Wedding vows of the bride and groom: what to say?
As mentioned above, the text of the wedding vows of the bride and groom can be both serious and comic. Often oaths, mostly comic, are done in the form of a poem - and sounds funny and the newlyweds remember conveniently. But this is not the best option. To rewrite someone else's oath, it does not matter from the Internet site or "dragging" her from the wedding of a friend, it is certainly easier than breaking the head over words. But, firstly, no one asks you to write poems, so if no one has talents for versification, then you do not need to try. Sincere words are much more valuable, even if they are picked up without any rhyme. And, secondly, the wedding is yours, and you want everything on it to be memorable, everything just for you. Will it be pleasant for you to remember, after a while, other people's words learned in a crib that do not express your feelings to the full?
How to make an oath for the bride and groom?
It is clear that the words of the oath should be sincere and go from the heart, but it does not hurt to write them down. The wedding is exciting, people sometimes forget their own names, not that the text of an oath. Therefore, the crib will not be superfluous at all. What to write? This question, of course, is better to discuss with the partner and make an oath so that she likes you both. And to make it easier to write it, remember which parts it should consist of.
- The first part usually includes a statement of fact - you say that a person is dear to you, and you are going to live with him a long and happy life. And you plan to start from today, combined with a legal marriage.
- In the next part, it's customary to talk about your feelings to your partner, what you love him is to be understood not only by him, but by everyone present. This is probably the easiest part - you just write what you feel.
- Well, in the end, after all the romance is a reminder of the harsh truth of life: marriage is not only tenderness and passion, it is also the obligations that each side takes upon itself. What you write here, what you will swear to each other, depends only on you. There may be a promise to be there both in sorrow and in joy, and the promise to name the son in honor of the grandfather of the husband, and the promise of the groom not to scold his wife for the broken bumper of his car.