For many couples, betrayal becomes the cause of the gap, sometimes the husband says that he decided to leave the family, sometimes the wife wants a divorce. And what to do if the husband changes, but does not go away? Endure this attitude or find a way how to get her husband to leave?
The husband changes, but does not leave, what to do?
Unfortunately, many women are familiar with the situation when the husband changes, but to leave the family nest is not solved. Some wives knowing where their husbands are constantly leaving are reconciling with this, because they do not want scandals or are expected to let the man know where they really love him. Needless to say that such an attitude will lead to nothing good? A man of this behavior will not appreciate and will continue to go to his mistress. In this situation, he simply does not need to change anything, he is satisfied with everything - he will get sex and rest from his mistress, and his wife will provide good food and clean clothes. Therefore, there is no need to indulge his desires, the only correct way out will be to file for divorce. Even if the husband says that he will leave himself, do not wait until he ripens, raise the conversation about divorce. And do not be happy that the husband left, but not yet divorced. The process can drag on for a long time, but while the man realizes that he has a place to go back. And he will do it when he quarrels with his mistress. You need a man who caused you so much suffering, declared himself in the house as the owner, said that he is a legitimate husband, and therefore has all the rights? If not, do not pull with divorce, understand that this relationship only prevents you from becoming happy, your husband is not the last man left on Earth, which means that you will certainly find someone who will appreciate you.
How to make her husband go away?
You decided that you no longer want to live with a traitor, so you have to get your husband to leave. But how to make it go away?
- What do you think should be done so that the husband leaves? The most obvious way is to have a frank conversation with your spouse. You need to explain to him why you want a divorce, that you do not see the point of further imaging the family. Only stay away from tears, hysterics, memories of all grievances - this can serve as an excuse for aggression, or awakening a belated regret in her husband. Neither one nor the other you do not need. The husband can and is aware of his guilt before you, but he will not change, the meeting with his mistress will continue. And many men do not take women's tears and cries seriously, considering that all the ladies of the hysterical woman will scream and calm down.
- If this method does not help, and the husband still does not want to leave you alone, how do you make him go away? You can try to survive it from the apartment, but the crayons like filthy shirts and a salted borscht will not do. It is necessary to live as if it is no longer in your life. Treat him like a lodger - take care only of yourself. Eating only for you and children, washing only your things, cleaning only in your room, where you will sleep alone. Call friends and friends, do not pay attention to his opinion. Let him understand that once
he lives his life, then you will do the same. And in this case, again, you need to keep from scandals, a man must see that this is not your bad mood, but a meaningful decision. - Another way to get rid of her husband is to collect all his things and put them on the stairwell, and change the locks while he is at work or at his beloved. But these measures, of course, are radical, and we can not do without scandals. And if the husband is also the owner (co-owner) of housing, then such actions are illegal, and therefore the procedure for divorce can complicate. Therefore, it is worth trying to solve the matter by peace, and throwing things off the balcony only after the court decision.