In the life of every woman, sooner or later there comes a time when she realizes that she lacks something in her relationship with her husband or her beloved man. There are many reasons for this state. Regardless of what led a fair sex to such thoughts, many of us begin to say to themselves: "I will find a lover." It is good or not very good for the woman to decide. But what pushes women to find a lover - this issue is engaged in many experts.
"I want to find a lover!"
Many women are capable of such a statement, but not all are able to translate the desired into reality. Conversations are conversations, and only a very brave and desperate woman can put family happiness at risk. So why does a woman have the thought "I want to change my husband!"? Psychologists distinguish three main reasons that push a woman to change:
- Thirst for new sensations.
- The crisis in the family life.
- Lack of attention from her husband.
In life, most women start looking for lovers no sooner than after 5 years of family life. Women seeking young lovers tend to be extremely dissatisfied with themselves and with their lives. This often occurs when family life is on its own, and each of the spouses is busy with their own business. When long conversations and passionate nights are no longer so important for the husband, a woman is looking for a lover.
Why do you need a lover and do you need anything at all?
Before doing real searches, every woman should find answers to these questions. Since if after the first connection with another man she is tortured by remorse, she will not receive satisfaction, either moral or physical. Typically, the ads "Seeking a young lover" mean the following:
- lover needed for sex. If the sexual relations with the spouse gradually come to naught and return the former brightness is not obtained, the women decide on this step;
- lover is needed for communication. In this case, the situation is the opposite - in bed with her husband everything is in order, but there is nothing to talk about. In this case, a married woman is looking for a lover to pour out her soul, share joys and sorrows, consult;
- lover needed for a virtual novel. This opportunity has appeared in modern women not so long ago. Through the Internet, many women satisfy their sexual fantasies and needs for spiritual conversations. This method, too, is the safest and innocuous for family happiness.
Where and how to find a lover?
This issue is faced by many women who have decided on extramarital affairs. In fact, for modern women - this is not a problem. The main thing is that this person should be reliable. Find a lover can be via the Internet or in any public place. It is advisable that you do not have a mutual acquaintance, and the lover has the following qualities:
- was not too talkative;
- I was able to follow your requirements - not to send love messages and not to call;
- was easy to communicate;
- I understood that family life is for you in a higher priority than the relationship with it;
- had a constant interest in sex;
- had a sense of humor;
- not to be married.
Psychologists all over the world recommend that before trying to find a lover, try to return the lost with the legal spouse. If a wife wants a lover, then she must realize that this is very risky for her family happiness. Naturally, to get in touch with another man - it's easy, but it's much better to try to make relations with your husband vivid and passionate. This helps to strengthen the family union and is a pledge of long happy joint years.