Treason will never solve the problems existing in the relationship. The painful feeling of guilt afterwards only aggravates the situation. The feeling of guilt, by the way, is typical for women in most cases. The question is, why then did this act?
A few words about the reasons
Female treason is subject to certain laws. Sexologists argue that a woman will never change for no reason, unlike a man. On the betrayal of a woman pushing for something, a lack of it in a relationship with a legal spouse. Men are primarily focused on sex, while a woman is looking for romance, respect. She wants to be admired.
A wife who succumbs to adultery, as a rule, tries to reanimate the ability to love a man, to feel desire and attraction. If a woman as a whole is not satisfied with marriage, she also has sexual dissatisfaction. Next, let's talk about the signs of adultery.
Not leaving traces
Men though do not have intuition, but nevertheless they can recognize treason. The spouse will give herself out. The first signs of betrayal of his wife can be easily seen:
- suddenly you become more sensitive to your appearance. Be careful, your husband may not notice it right away;
- coming back home with the next bouquet, think up something original in advance in the justification, or leave it in an entrance. Do not spare flowers, they will not help, but you will get rid of the interrogation;
- Do not get carried away by night calls on the phone in the bathroom or in the kitchen, do not forget to erase calls and sms;
- Your unwillingness to perform a conjugal duty will certainly raise suspicions;
- frequent visits to friends, parties, where "only girls", work late - all this your husband can easily check, remember this.
Such signs of female adultery as new clothes and expensive jewelry, the smell of male cologne, excessive kindness, secrecy, the absence of words of love for the spouse will be immediately noticed.
If a woman has a permanent lover, she becomes more attentive to her husband and children. She is better performing her duties around the house, becoming more organized in her work. These changes occur under the influence of the guilt that she feels. The spouse is trying in this way to compensate or correct his mistake. A man can feel that you have become "different", but he does not understand the true reason.
Signs of betrayal of a girl, women also consist in a constant mention of a colleague, a friend. Most likely, you so often think about your lover that you do not even notice frequent conversations about him. Be careful, because your spouse will notice this. Husbands react morbidly to betrayal, rather than wives, although both have a hard time. Wives are psychologically more prepared for possible betrayal by the spouse. In public opinion, infidelity is perceived rather as a male prank. Women are also characterized by a willingness to forgive betrayal. Forgiveness is given to a woman more easily if she has not experienced any feelings for the seducer.
At the subconscious level, husbands treat wives as property, so it is especially painful for them to feel that someone is "in charge" in his possessions. Men tend to be the first in a relationship with a woman. The strongest fear is that a rival can be more skilful in bed.
Psychologists give practical advice: if there is no evidence of treason, then the "traitor" in no case can not admit his sin. Some admit it in moments of remorse or under pressure. Only that's nothing but additional pain, deceived side it will not bring.