As they say, the problem of betrayal does not come by itself, but only after the deceived half finds out about it. After that, you need to make a decision: to break off relations or stay. Usually the first impulse is to abandon the traitor. But sometimes it's not so easy. And then a great idea comes to the woman's head: she will only take revenge - and forget. But how to take revenge on a man for treason? ..
To revenge for treason - an eye for an eye
Many women solve this question simply: "If he can, then so do I, I want revenge on my husband's betrayal." Very many people start looking for a man for a relationship on the side. Someone gets acquainted with others on the Internet, someone enters an active flirtation, and some allow themselves full-fledged dates with a return betrayal. They say the wedge kicks out.
However, by far not all are suitable such a method. Many women so fondly love their man, that even because of his betrayal they are not able to spin a romance with someone else. Therefore, unless you yourself are not an amorous person with a mass of admirers, you should not try to step over yourself.
How to revenge a guy for treason - detachment and chic
Pay attention to yourself - was not your appearance and way of life the reason for his misconduct? If you have not bought erotic lingerie for a long time, go around the house in a dressing gown (or in general in anything - in the same), do not paint, do not have your hobbies - it only says that your man could simply lose interest in you . The same applies to those situations where a woman looks flawless, but constantly saws a man or yells at him.
In this case, it's worth taking a break, behaving detached, and at the same time doing yourself - lose weight, if necessary, change your hair, make permanent make-up, buy a couple of new things, look stylish and attractive. Most likely, he will begin to treat you quite differently, but here it is necessary to take a break and ask him not to approach you closer than a meter for some time.
How to get revenge for treason - disappearance?
A great way to avenge for treason - as rarely as possible to appear at home. Go to the fitness club, find a part-time job, meet with friends - at a time when he is at home, there should not be you, with rare exceptions.
In addition, it is worth to stop dealing with a man - do not put his things in the washing machine, do not cook dinner for him, do not clean up his scattered things, etc. It is not worthwhile to delay such practice, but 1-2 weeks will be enough.
How to take revenge on her husband for treason - his passion
If you know that your man has done more than one stupid thing, namely, having a relationship on the side, you can try to explore more about his passion. If she has a husband, you need to find a way to contact him and tell him everything. If she is alone, then it is possible to do something insidious: to agree with a friend, preferably nice, so that he gets acquainted with her, and arrange so that their date falls into the sphere of view of your man.
How to take revenge on her husband for treason - separation for a while
If you see that you can not be with this person in the same room, declare that you need time and find a way to part with it. Perhaps during this time you will understand that it is now easier for you without it.
But remember - he too can do a lot of things during this time, and if your children are involved in your quarrel, it's better not to take chances. More precisely, do not take risks if you are in doubt. And if you feel disgust, then perhaps this is the most accessible and easy way to understand yourself.
The main thing is to take revenge only if you really want it, and moreover in worthy ways. There are cases when a woman, having learned about the betrayal of her husband, cleaned the cat's toilet with his toothbrush, why the helminths tortured him, or simply poured him a purgen, which caused him a lot of inconvenience. Still, these are not exactly justified methods, so do not lose your head.