Men like to talk about their polygamousness and the laws of nature, pushing them to a constant search for new impressions. No wonder that women are puzzled by the search for the first signs of a betrayal of her husband, and then they are interested in the advice of a psychologist to make up with a lover who is offended by such mistrust. Since it is reliable to learn about the infidelity of a spouse, without causing his righteous anger?
The first signs of betrayal of her husband in behavior
- There is no time . To meet with his mistress, you need to find time in your schedule. So if her husband has started frequent business trips, delays at work until late at night and attempts to leave on weekends, supposedly to friends, then it can be considered an unpleasant little bell. Although, the husband can really be busy at work because of a colleague who has left on vacation or the prospects for raising.
- Difficult relationship with the phone . If earlier he was lying on the table freely, and now he does not leave his palms, but if he remains in a conspicuous place, he must always lie down on the screen so that you can not see anything superfluous by chance. Or he had the habit of constantly writing messages and leading long conversations. And if you ask who he so late calls or writes, it turns out that these are business partners or an inadequate boss, reminding before going to bed about the report.
- Intimate sphere . A rare man can equally effectively work on both fronts, so that someone will have to walk unsatisfied, and it is unlikely to be a mistress. In addition, it is worth paying attention to new bed preferences, especially if earlier he did not want to hear about them. The worst variant is STDs (sexual infections), unexpectedly formed at your fidelity, and do not think to justify visiting public baths or toilets as an excuse, as sexually transmitted diseases can be picked up in this way only with high persistence.
- Image . Stretched T-shirts and jeans, older than his mom suddenly changed into stylish clothes? Watch out if you did not initiate it or your husband suddenly found a job with strict requirements for appearance. Also, a change in behavior regarding the use of toilet water and shoe purity may serve as a sign of adultery of a husband, if earlier your companion was not so fond of it.
- Updating of tastes . The behavior of the husband in the case of treason can change in accordance with the new sensations. It can be not only bedtime impressions, but also unexpected taste preferences, new speech turns, hobbies and habits.
- Feelings of guilt . If your husband is not a hardened liar, then after betrayal his behavior will necessarily become different. He can become unnecessarily affectionate, will try to help in all matters that previously contemptuously called female, and may even irritate even the mention of the weather. It all depends on how he behaves when he feels guilty.
- Financial losses . Before that, there were no problems with merry weekends or holidays, but now there was a sharp shortage of money. This may be due to the fact that all finances go to a new passion. Of course, we should not exclude problems with work or health, which men's pride hinders to share.
- Material evidence . The reinforced concrete evidence is the detection of condoms in your pocket if you are trying to have a baby or use other methods of protection. Also, you should be alerted by checks for purchases, trips to restaurants or expensive personal gifts, to which you are not related. And more hackneyed cliches like the smell of other women's perfume, hair and lipstick on clothes. Experienced bettors will not allow such a miss, but beginners adulterous adultery can quite stupid pierce.