Very often, even the strongest relationship between spouses can give a break. In most cases, women do not know for a long time about the betrayal of a loved one, considering changes in behavior as banal fatigue. Many do not want to notice that their marriage is bursting at the seams, and some still feel something is wrong, but they can not exactly understand what is happening. However, there are several signs by which it can be calculated that the husband is changing.
Nine signs of treason
So, let's consider the most obvious changes in the behavior of the husband, which are signs of treason:
- Strange conversations on the phone . A man does not part with his phone for a minute if someone calls to him, tries to talk very quietly or even leaves the room.
- Cooling in an intimate relationship . The husband has ceased to deal with you with love, or you feel that during sex he does everything on the machine, then he gets what he needs somewhere else.
- Change in appearance . The man began to devote more time to his image, tries to wear stylish shirts and trousers, does not forget about cologne and deodorant, although he rarely used it before.
- Delayed at work . It is worthwhile to be alerted if your spouse is almost every day late at work, and sometimes quits "work" on weekends.
- It is separated from the family . More and more often a man tries to spend time outside the home, is removed from family problems, gives you and children less time, referring to fatigue and personal affairs.
- Changes in the mood . The husband becomes more irritable, begins to carp at any little things, provokes conflict, and then tries to leave the house.
- Internet is the best friend . All the free time the man began to conduct on the Internet , although it is not for him.
- Separate pastime . If earlier you visited corporate parties together, public places, now your spouse prefers to go there alone.
- Problems with finances . The husband became less "earn", although it became more work, it is not surprising, because his passion should be presented with gifts and led to restaurants.
The reasons for the betrayal of her husband can be many, for example:
- problems in intimate relationships;
- the desire to experience something new;
- fatigue from family life;
- revenge;
- love, etc.
But what kind of relationship can be after betrayal, because such a betrayal is rarely what a woman can forgive. Whichever decision you take, give the husband the opportunity to calmly explain everything, do not get excited, although this is not so easy. Perhaps, you will understand it, you will see in this problem and a share of your guilt, suddenly it lacked your attention and warmth. Sometimes everything, most importantly remember that if you really love each other, try to keep this love, because it is not given to everyone.