No sphere of our life is surrounded by so many myths as sex. And the question of virginity in this there is no equal. And even if in the subject of female innocence, glorified and at the same time "chewed", sometimes blatantly illiterate questions emerge, whether it is worth saying that virginity in boys is surrounded by an even greater aura of conjectures, sometimes very far from the truth. So, what is the virginity of boys, and how do they "lose" it, and in general, do the guys lose their virginity - the theme of our today's article.
Myths and Reality
Myth number 1. Guys lose their virginity much earlier than girls
In most countries, history has for many centuries elevated the hymen to the rank of a sacred jewel, which girls must be protected in every possible way. And if a woman can be proud of her virginity, then, a man, as a rule, seeks to get rid of the title "virgin", as soon as possible, at least in words. So there are 13-year-old ladies-lovers, willingly narrating about their adventures to surprised peers. Another type of virgin guy prefers to leave questions about sexual intercourse, but very few people actually know a woman, just entering the transition age. Loss of virginity in boys often occurs much later - in 16-19 years (and this is correct, because at an earlier age, boys are not yet ready for sex psychologically). Relatively high percentage of adult virgins, over 25 years. Many of them deliberately avoid physical intimacy, preferring "girlfriends" from sex shops or even from the virtual world.
Myth number 2. If the guy is still a virgin, then he is ugly or sick
The causes of virginity in boys can serve many factors: the pathology of a member (curvature, non-standard dimensions), an unsuccessful first experience, religious restrictions or strict upbringing. A virgin may be a romantic who keeps himself for the first and only.
Myth number 2. Guys also hurt to lose their virginity
Most likely, the myth is based on a phenomenon such as phimosis - congenital or (less commonly) acquired pathology - narrowing of the foreskin ring, which prevents the full disclosure of the head of the penis. In fact, physically male virginity is not indicated in any way, i.e. virginity in boys means only the lack of sexual experience with a partner. If a virgin can relieve sexual tension without resorting to penetration into the vagina, i.e. not imitating sexual intercourse, the virgin, in any case, has already experienced on his limb all kinds of friction and contraction, so that the female body is unlikely to give him any inconvenience.
Myth number 3. The first time always lasts a few seconds
Deprivation of virginity of the boy can be dragged on for a long time because of fear not to meet the expectations of the partner. According to the setting given to us by education, a man must play an active role. If the young man did not dare to confess to the girl in his innocence, then, most likely, his nerves will be at the limit. There may be problems with erection or ejaculation. Deprivation of virginity in a guy may not be crowned with orgasm at all. Although sometimes, of course, the "fountain of emotions" begins to beat prematurely.
How to deprive a guy of virginity?
If your young man confesses that he did not yet have sexual experience, it is important to understand that you have a great responsibility. Yes, it is responsibility, because no one doubts that a man who deprives a partner of virginity, must be gentle and sensitive. The fact that anatomically male virginity is not indicated in any way, does not cancel the psychological strain of a man. From how the guys lose their virginity, in the future, their entire sex life may depend.
In no case should you laugh or make fun of a virgin, and if it comes to bed, be extremely delicate.