Cardinally differ not only the opinions of couples on the topic of sex in "pleasant anticipation," but the very desire to engage in it. So, many men can initiate new forms of partners, and some, on the contrary, are afraid of somehow damaging its fragility and vulnerability. Women also can not agree in one opinion: some pregnant women experience an unprecedented earlier sexual desire, which is explained by hormonal shocks in the body. Others, on the contrary, feel disgust for themselves and their bodies, so they want to "not disgrace" and not show themselves in this form before a man.
Virtually unanimous only doctors who say that if sex is not contraindicated to the fetus, then it is useful to the child and the mother. First, it will relieve the emotional tension from a woman who is constantly worried about the course of pregnancy and brewing birth. Secondly, a child is always much more useful when his mother is in a good mood, after all, her body provides him with much better protection and food.
In general, what is not contraindicated, it is useful. On this and get together and proceed to the choice of postures for sex for pregnant couples.
First trimester
In the first trimester , the poses for making love with pregnant women do not differ from sex with any other woman. The intimate life of the couple continues to flow in its turn, and discomfort can arise during sex only if the man feels uncomfortable before his child for taking part in such a shameful affair. Then it should be explained:
- in the womb of the mother the child basically sleeps;
- movement during sex, the fetus perceives the same as the fast walking of the mother;
- the fetus is reliably protected by connective and fatty tissue, placenta, amniotic fluid, therefore it is practically impossible to harm him or even touch him.
Second and third trimester: postures
The abdomen grows "like a leap", and now couples think about comfortable postures for pregnant women. From the missionary position it is necessary to refuse - unpleasant pressure on the stomach is not harmful, but it will definitely not bring pleasure to the partners.
Suit pose "Rider" - so, a woman can, at her discretion, monitor sexual intercourse and depth of penetration. But to avoid that, because of what this pose, in general, and love - the maximum depth of entry, you need to move up and down, and forward - back.
"Doggy style" is probably the best posture for pregnant women, because in a position on all fours, a woman completely relaxes her back, the future mother will have a great rest. However, control over sexual intercourse in the hands of a man, but he can "start" and forget about pregnancy. To prevent the matter from discomfort and painful sensations, remind the man that now he should be even more tender and more affectionate than usual.
"Spoon" - both partners lie on their sides, and here, "heavy" a woman can not even move. There are no minuses in this position, the main thing is that the man does not press the women on his belly with his hands.
Blowjob and cunnilingus - certainly, when a woman does blowjob, this is the safest pose for a pregnant woman. Doctors do not see any contraindications to oral sex , except as an opportunity to infect partners with infections, fungi, bacteria that can be caught on male genitalia.
To avoid risk, a man must pass all tests and exclude a full range of ailments of his sexual organs. The same goes for cunnilingus. In the "people" there is an opinion that a partner with his breath can squeeze the pelvic vessels of a pregnant woman. But on such stories gynecologists simply respond with an ironic smile. Cunnilingus can not be harmful if the man has no sore throat or other diseases of the oral cavity.