Parents are our most important people, because they gave us life. From them the child receives primary experience and knowledge, traditions, faith, they are for him a source of knowledge, morality, morality.
Many do not feel gratitude towards their parents. On the way are insults, fears, inability to understand them, unspoken words. And this is a big stone in the soul of a man. The process of reconciliation can last for years. But one should be persistent, and gradually get rid of resentment and own unforgiveness. Over time, you can see the reasons and understand the feelings of the parents. Perhaps they had a difficult life or did not have a relationship with their parents.
Try to reconcile with your parents, improve relationships, find positive moments, and something for which you can thank your parents, for example, for your own life, but this is more than what they could give.
Gratitude from children to parents can be expressed in several ways:
- Mentally . Remember only their good qualities and deeds. Singling out dignities and extolling them, even if others do not agree with this. Thinking about them is only positive.
- Words . Talk about parents and parents with tenderness and love. Give them respect and respect that you are experiencing.
- Actions . To act decently and honestly, because such children can only be with the same wonderful parents. You should help your parents with joy, goodwill, so that they will be pleased to contact you.
- Write a letter of gratitude to parents.
When you get rid of the negativity towards your parents, express your gratitude to them, you will be surprised when you realize how much they have done for you. If you are not yet ready to go to reconciliation, try writing a letter to them.
How to write a thank you to parents?
- The words of gratitude to parents from children should be started with tender treatment: daddy, mommy, beloved ones, dear ones. Next, describe some kind of warm memories or a funny incident, you can just outline the purpose of this letter. Write sincerely, if you do not feel something, it is better to omit it altogether in the text.
- Then tell for what you are grateful to them. In the text, insert your feelings and thoughts. If this is the gratitude from the daughter to the parents for the upbringing of the children, then in the text indicate how they simplified your life, that you could at that time make repairs in the house, or grandma's lessons with grandchildren helped you raise educated children, whereas you earned money in the family . Even if it's a trifle, mark it in the text, parents will be pleased.
- Remember the bright event from the common life, such memories are dear to all members of the family. While reproducing it, indicate what impression this incident has produced on you. Thank your parents for seeing the sun, your loved ones, doing what you love. For the little things that are sometimes so important.
- At the end, write how happy it is to have such (indicate their dignity) parents. Express to them the words of your affection and love. It may be mentioned that they regret that they gave them grief that they could not always help, that they rarely see them. It would be superfluous to invite them to a small family feast. Do not forget to hug and kiss your parents. Finish the letter by signing up with a children's nickname, which your parents called you. Put a little bit of yourself in your gratitude. The letter will not take a lot of time, and parents will feel necessary and valuable to you.
- Remember, when gratitude to parents for the help or for excellent education of children expresses an educational institution,
words are written on thick paper and in general the form has the form of a commendable letter on which the following text is written: dear ___ (name of the parents), the school administration brings gratitude for the good upbringing of the daughter (name, first name) and for your help to the school. At the bottom of the signature, near the decryption (director, head teacher, class teacher) and the school's stamp. Maybe you should do the same for your parents?
To educate grateful children, parents also need to be grateful to others, because a child copies the behavior of adults.