On the question of how to correct the mistakes of the past, the following should be answered: is it necessary? All that we have experienced, even if any of our mistakes is our priceless experience. Would not stumble - would not know how to act in a similar situation. A person must learn from his own mistakes, otherwise this is just an observation from the outside.
How many people - so many stories
Errors of past years can "strike" at us again and again, causing wild pain unpleasant memories. Unfortunately, forget
- something that was impossible. We did not come up with a magic pill "erasing" certain fragments from our memory. Therefore, the question of how to forget past mistakes is not relevant. You can only ease your burden by doing the following:
- accept what happened. This has already happened and remains in the past. You can not fix anything;
- try to see the pros of those events;
- do not hold any evil on anybody and blame no one;
- do not blame yourself, it will not change anything. You have learned this lesson;
- Live on and rejoice in every day.
Correcting mistakes of past years in some cases may seem quite real. How often on a youth girls give birth to children and give them to an orphanage. In the future, rising to their feet, they remember what they did and run headlong after their chal. And this child has already adopted a decent family, he is healthy, shod and endlessly happy. In this case, the intervention of the biological mother only traumatizes the child. It is possible that all this is done to "make amends" for themselves, to calm themselves. It's more like selfishness. Think, but do you need this bitter truth to someone you once threw? Now be responsible for what you did. And care will show your non-interference in the fate of the child.
If the child lives in the orphanage, then your desire to take him home is not forbidden. However, be prepared for the fact that he will not rush to you around his neck, offering his arms.
Another common "mistake of the past" is the experience of working in some not quite decent sphere. Many girls are removed in the nude for Internet sites, magazines and other similar projects. In the future, most of them regret and shy of their experience. Do not worry with remorse. What was - it was. Hence, at that time it was justified. And no one has the right to judge you.
The past can not be corrected, but to work for the benefit of your future - please.