In our society it is customary to think that most of the guys by the age of twenty already have sexual experience. However, this is not the case for all men, and a guy can be a virgin even at 25, which does not prevent him from being nice, and successful. Not all girls are ready for this situation, and many simply do not know what to do if the guy is a virgin.
Everyone once had sex for the first time , but it is men who are ashamed of their virginity, and the older they become, the more it worries them. It can be with full confidence that the further sexual life of a virgin is in the fragile pens of his first woman. Tactfulness and caution - these are the qualities that must be shown when dealing with a guy without sexual experience. Do not be surprised to learn that a guy at 20 is a virgin, just take it for granted.
How to recognize a guy from a virgin?
It's not difficult, usually such men are romantic and sublime, they are not inclined to talk about sexual topics, do not ask for a "cup of coffee" on the first evening.
The causes of male virginity can be different:
- the guy can adhere to the view that sex without love is impossible, and so wait for your "only" and the most desired, in order to give her yourself;
- perhaps, men have complexes about the size of the penis , its shape, because of the presence of a birthmark, scar;
- lowered self-esteem can also be the cause of male virginity, even for externally self-confident men;
- lack of interest in sex is another reason. Perhaps the guy was just very busy - work, study, sports, hobbies, and he was not up to the girls;
- a bad experience in the past can for a long time discourage a guy from starting a relationship with a girl again. Perhaps the previous girl showed blatant tactlessness, or she shocked the young man with her indiscretion, and this was so psychologically traumatic that he did not dare more to make new attempts;
- the guy can be mama's little son. Excessive maternal care often does not allow a man to become completely independent, and constant obsessive control deprives the initiative.
So what to do if your boyfriend is a virgin, and you are with him in bed, or are you very hungry for her? Sex with a virgin guy, whose age - 18-20 years can be quite "on the level." After all, hormones at this age are literally raging, and if such a guy has already reached the "cherished fruit", then he certainly will be tireless in bed. But still in this situation it is better to remember some recommendations:
- the behavior of a virgin guy can testify to his insecurity. The duty of a woman is to help overcome it. The guy should be sure of your love, and also that you do not quit it, even if the first attempt to have sex turns out to be unsuccessful;
- in any case you can not remember about your other partners. The guy is already afraid of not being on top, from such memories it will only get worse.
- how to excite a guy a virgin? Do not hurry, give the initiative to him, let the guy decide to kiss you, undress, go to sex;
- show patience, because decisive steps may have to wait more than one day. Just talk about your love, about what you want it;
- he should know that you like his body, be gentle, caress him yourself. But if the guy does not immediately admit to "the most valuable", do not insist, act cautiously.
There are situations when a guy and a girl are virgins. In this case, before embarking on the practice of sex, one should study the theory well, read the relevant literature. It is better to begin with mutual caresses, and to have sex after a few nights spent together.