If earlier the difference in age was too important, then now moral norms allow oneself to feel more free in choosing a partner. Therefore, in modern society, an adult woman and a young lover is a frequent phenomenon.
Why do ladies seek young lovers?
As you know, the sexual flowering of a woman falls on the age of 30-40 years, when in men this period lasts from about 20 to 30. Seeking young lovers, women, especially single women, try to realize their potential and get unforgettable feelings from intimacy. In addition, in such an alliance for a woman there are many other pluses:
- romantic relationships;
- personal freedom;
- feeling of a second youth;
- interesting communication, expansion of the world outlook ;
- the ability to have a healthy child;
- increasing self-esteem;
- chance to start life from scratch.
It is interesting that, according to the results of social surveys, women, whose lover is about 10 years younger, are more inclined to follow themselves, to go in for sports.
How to find and keep a young lover?
Most young men think that mature women are preferable to their peers, especially in sexual terms. It is important to pay attention to such moments:
- Always look good;
- care for the preservation of youth and attractiveness;
- pay attention to his figure;
- To follow the novelties in the world of fiction, movies and music;
- be modern in terms of moral principles;
- not to be afraid of the first to start a conversation and learn to flirt ;
- feel relaxed in bed.
It's also easy to keep a young man, the main thing is that it's interesting and easy for you. Therefore, in no case should you behave as if you - his mother, morality and useful advice from a rich life experience should be left with him. In addition, if you have a married young lover, you do not need to force him to leave the family. A man at any age prefers to make independent decisions, and any pressure on him will only accelerate the separation.
"Lover is younger than me" - cons
Of course, if your lover is significantly younger - for 10 years or more, there are also negative sides to the question:
- public condemnation;
- misunderstanding by relatives and employees;
- envy of girlfriends;
- different views on life and values;
- absence of serious relationship;
- financial instability of a young man.
But in the end, it's up to you to decide. No good on earth can be compared to happiness in your personal life. And no matter how it is built.