Whether we like it or not, we always face a choice. We choose where we live, where to go to study, choose a profession, and in the future and place of work. Decision making process is inevitable. Sometimes it is very difficult to make a choice. We have to think, analyze, compare all the "pluses" and "minuses", worry with doubts and go for a kind of risk.
The question of what to choose - a career or a family of many confounders. And this is mainly for women, because caring for the family, raising children and arranging a family nest falls on our fragile shoulders. There's nothing to be done, we will choose ...
Down with stereotypes
In a society it is accepted so - the woman marries, gives birth to children and, happy up to a disgrace, spends evenings in expectation of the spouse. Certainly, someone like this life suits and it's wonderful. Otherwise, you do not need to make a sacrifice and act contrary to your desires and goals. It is important to understand that you do not owe anything to anyone in this life. Nobody will build your happiness for you, will not achieve desire and will not achieve goals. If you feel in yourself a rich potential that you want to realize in your career, and not in the family, then act. Women are married at the age of 35 and give birth to children, although of course the latter requires considerable efforts and a responsible attitude towards one's health.
A successful woman can afford to visit beauty salons, use high-quality means to care for herself, to watch to always be in great shape. Such women will not be deprived of men's attention. However, it will be more difficult to find a worthy "male", because he must outstrip you both materially and psychologically. Otherwise, you will always have to put up with his low self-esteem against the background of your success.
So, in the question of what is more important - a family or a career, we choose our career. Naturally, only in the event that you have not yet acquired a family, but only set your priorities for the near future.
Think with your heart
So she came, love. And now it does not matter - accidentally or specially, but feelings overwhelm, and the business is nearing the wedding. And you have a career to prepare for your "star hour", and somehow all inappropriately, but love after all ... Here comes the time of choice, the woman is rushing, because she does not know what to choose - career or still a family. It's no secret that after the wedding, as a rule, children are born, and this is a happy ticket to the decree. What kind of career is there, what are you talking about ...?
In this situation, you will have to choose your heart and soul, and not your head. Look at the man who is next to you. Perhaps he appeared in your life and made it brighter and more interesting, added meaning to it. Your man is ready to create a family, and above all with all his heart he wants it. If you are confident that he will be able to provide a decent life for you and your future children, if you see him as the father of your children, then think about it. Obviously, you are ready to become a loving wife and mother, you are pleased with this idea and subconsciously you have already made your choice.
Finding a loved one is not so easy. How often you can meet a man who wolf howls from loneliness. You can sympathize with couples who, despite all the achievements of modern medicine, can not have children and fall into despair.
Why the family is more important than a career - everyone decides for himself. For someone, happiness in children and care for her husband, someone in principle does not want to work and can afford it, others sacrifice in the name of love. Everyone has the right to choose, but one can never blame anyone. You make your choice, and you are responsible for its consequences.
A modern woman, if desired, can find the opportunity to combine care for the family and a successful career. And if next to her is really a decent man, he will understand and support.