Love is evil and, unfortunately, psychopaths use it. It is important to determine in time that there is something wrong with the guy, and get away from such "sick" relationships.
Just imagine, in the world about 4% of people suffer from psychopathy, this means that one in 25 people is socially dangerous. The characteristic features of the psycho include an increased love for oneself, a pathological lie, a lack of conscience and sympathy. Have you noticed similar symptoms in your boyfriend? Believe me, this is not good.
1. Ideal relationship, as in a fairy tale.
Partner surrounded you with love, shows tenderness, fulfills all the whims, in general, there is a feeling that here he is a long-awaited prince, and life has become a fairy tale. Sadly, his tactics are win-win, because it's very difficult to resist compliments, attention and tenderness. If it's not a long time, and he's already talking about strong love, think about it, because it looks somehow suspicious.
2. Stop, stop, something is very fast.
Psychopaths are difficult, and do not want to, wear a mask of the "ideal prince" for a long time, so he chooses the game according to the accelerated scenario. He talks about eternal love, children, wedding and calls "the second half" almost from the moment of acquaintance? Brake, because such haste can lead to a sad end.
3. He's just a super star.
When he realizes that the victim is "on the hook," the personality of the psychopath will begin to manifest itself little by little. He likes to be in the center of attention, that everyone admired him or at least regretted it. To do this, he will connect his inexhaustible imagination and tell how he took the child out of the burning house, how he defeated a serious illness and so on. With each time the tales will be increasingly unrealistic and it will appear that Superman is next.
4. I did not do this and did not say that!
If a beloved psychopath, then soon you will have a new faithful "friend" feeling of insolvency and even guilt. All this - an excellent tactic of action, because a guy can get out of any situation, like a skilled magician. Think about how often the phrase "you wind yourself up" sounds? And the most sad is that after a while you will agree with this.
5. Life is like a roller coaster.
Until recently, you were for him the embodiment of an angel, the most beautiful and unique, and today he does not think so, and more often you can hear different humiliating speeches. It's a shame, is not it? Even a temporary loss of interest is a signal that it will not be better, and the end is not far off.
6. Be jealous, cry, scream ...
A psycho is a real provocateur who likes to feed on the emotions of other people. He seems to play a game, the purpose of which is to knock the ground out from under his feet. It's sad, but all the critical moments and hysteria will have to be experienced alone, because compassion is alien to him.
7. Its purpose is to do the most painful.
The psychopathic guy seeks to carefully examine his prey to identify weaknesses for successful manipulation. He likes to conduct "interrogations", finding out all the details, marking important stories for himself. In any conflict, he clicks on the most painful points. For example, if you lived in an incomplete family, believe me, he will often put pressure on it.
8. Life turned upside down?
Go to the mirror and look at your reflection. You have ceased to recognize yourself, you understand that life is falling into the abyss, and do not remember when you were recently feeling joy? This is a serious sign that your relationship is a road to nowhere, and you need to change something urgently.