Female beauty, like everything else in the world - is short-lived. Once, even the most self-willed and freedom-loving lady comes up with the idea that it's time to get married. Mommies, walking leisurely with strollers on the street, no longer seem to be those who spend their youth for nothing, and even vice versa, they become the object of envy, and the wedding cars with bells and ribbons that signal to the whole avenue are no longer irritating, and cause only a dreary feeling of being deprived.
Well, if you really really want to get married, you need to quickly find a husband. How to do it - is not the first question, first you need to decide exactly, why accelerate this process: time is "tightening up" or is it a usual whim?
Why get married quickly?
It is very important to answer this question yourself. The fact is that the rush in making serious decisions is not always beneficial, therefore, the hasty choice of the husband and the "lightning fast" registration in the registrar can turn into an equally rapid divorce. Evaluate subjective and objective reasons, and if they really are very significant, and the risk of creating a family with an unfamiliar person does not bother you, then we quickly read the following items to get married.
How to get married quickly and successfully?
Achieving success in this field is not easy: too many factors that can not be taken into account: no one knows what will be elected in 10 years, and your future preferences, too, is difficult to predict. Therefore, the main criterion for choosing a spouse is whether it suits you now. If there are small "minuses" - not scary, they are at all. But if you notice behind him a penchant for alcoholic beverages, gambling machines, drug addiction or contemptuous attitude to the female sex - run away from him.
What is your hero?
To successfully marry, pay attention to these men:
- smart and resourceful (good for a career);
- loves animals (not a cruel person);
- generous (there will be no problems, such as "make yourself a new coat");
- responsible (will not build air locks and promise what can not be done - there will be fewer deceptions);
- industrious (after 5 years of marriage you will not have a feeling that you married "infusoria shoe" - the simplest organism with a monotonous life and all the ensuing consequences).
If you met a man with at least the first three qualities, then this is an occasion to think about marriage with him.
How quickly to find a husband?
People - like wine, endure time. So be careful with a hasty decision.
Since life is unpredictable, and in fact, you can meet your future husband anywhere, then make your life more active: go to a cafe, build eyes (beautiful appearance 24 hours a day, no one canceled), on excursions, exhibitions, rollerdromes, cinemas and other public places, in a word, increase the likelihood of meeting a suitable man.
Tip: 21% of couples find their future spouse, 27% of couples in public places, and 16% of couples have common acquaintances. Hence the conclusion: we communicate more, we often make "sorties into the light" and look at our colleagues.
How to get married quickly?
When a man is found, tested, and meets the minimum requirements, then he must be persuaded to marry. Here are some tips on how to get married quickly:
- Learn the ideal of his wife (not an ephemeral understanding of the ideal woman, namely the wife with whom he is ready to spend his entire life).
- Even if his ideas about his wife do not match yours, pretend: then redo "in your own way."
- Make him happy and do not impose too much: no matter how much you want to get married, but you can not allow too much in the first days of communication.
What and who can help to get married quickly?
A few things that will speed up the marriage:
- expensive and pleasant perfumes;
- self-cooked masterpieces of cooking;
- clean and comfortable apartment / room in which you live: let him find out that you are a wonderful hostess and know how to make a cozy nest even from a "dilapidated kennel" where you want to stay forever.
People who will help you get married quickly:
- parents: they must show that they are happy with your chosen one and already love the "future son-in-law";
- friends: these people should make it clear that you can spend time together with them.
To master the art of "quick marriage" is not so easy, but following these tips, you will greatly accelerate your search and be able to translate your dream into reality.