Many women because of their complexes hesitate to undress before men. Because of this, they can not be liberated and feel free with him in bed. Almost every woman can find at least one defect, most often it sounds like this: I have cellulite , a small chest, a big belly and the like. Maybe I can calm myself down and get it, but in front of a man the complexes are amplified 2 times.
The reason for the appearance of complexes
Most often, everything is to blame for stereotypes. Since childhood, you've heard opinions about the fact that sex is bad, during the bed scenes, we were blinded or simply thrown into another room. Because of this, the idea in my head that sex is something shameful, and the manifestation of one's desires is equated with perversion. All this has affected the formation of complexes that interfere with you in a relationship with a man.
Many stereotypes of appearance also affect many women. Try to find a ugly woman in magazines or on some TV show. Perfect, slender girls with beautiful well-groomed skin and hair smile at every page of gloss. Although let's really consider what they are propagating: long legs, excessive leanness, lack of breasts and so on. And if you ask men, then many do not like it, so this problem is only in your head. Statistics show that men love women in the body, and not walking "skeletons." And in general, in bed, a man has almost no time to consider you, and if you are with him, then he has already appreciated you for a long time. Therefore, it's time to set aside all your complexes and start loving yourself. Thus, you can enjoy the attention of a man, and not be shy and think about your own shortcomings.
Women's Tricks
There are several ways how it is more comfortable to feel in bed, and not to think about your shortcomings.
- You need to tan, as the body with dark skin looks slimmer and sexier. If the window is not summer, then go to the salon or just buy a self-tanning spray. The first time you need to apply to the entire body, and the next day, with autosunburn, cover only those parts of the body that you would like to make visually slimmer. Also, many women use different oils that give the skin a shine, and it will look very smooth.
- Another secret is accessories. Different beads, bracelets, can divert attention from problem zones and beautify dignity. Stockings, high heel shoes all this not only beautifies the body, but also diversifies the sex life.
- Create a romantic atmosphere, arrange candles, roses, put a cloth of red color on the lamp. Scattered light will present your figure in the best way.
- A wonderful tool for relaxing - massage. You can do it yourself, go to the salon or ask your loved one. Use oils, creams, all this will help you to liberate and love your body.
- Go in for sports and eat right. Thanks to this you will be able to lose weight, and you will not have to hide extra pounds.
You can choose any direction of training, it can be yoga, swimming, pilates, running, etc. Sports will help you lose weight, improve your plasticity and posture, you will become a real "cat". - To overcome all your fears and complexes, dance your favorite striptease. Believe me, he will be very happy with every move you make, and you will forget about your shortcomings once and for all.
All these recommendations should completely change your relationship with a man. Now you are an emancipated woman who loves her body, and does not give the slightest chance to any complexes.