How to achieve a guy ... You know, I generally do not like this verb terribly. Not in general, but here, in this sentence. Why - I'll say in the end. I can not give you advice on how to get the guy who interests you. But I will try to answer your questions, based on how I treat this topic.
How to achieve the guy you love?
And who does not love you at all? Well, in this case, like in many others, the principle of "not washing, so rolling" is very good. Always be in his presence, go where he goes, be where he is, do what he does. You see, after all it is quite possible that you are not the only one puzzled by how this guy can be achieved. Probably, this is what another girl thinks. So in this case, the one that wins is stronger.
True, it is - provided that the subject of your battles is absolutely the same with which of you two to stay. But if, for example, he millets at the sight of brown-eyed brown-haired women, and you've been proud of your linen hair and the heavenly color of your eyes all your life, the situation is changing significantly. Have pity on your time (and pride), and think about whether you should get this guy?
How to achieve a guy who likes?
Opposites, they say, are attracted. Yes. In theory. In real life, the couple should have at least some point of contact. If your sweetheart adores scuba diving, and you are afraid to go into the sea - how not to twist, you will hardly be able to get this guy's attention. If he does not miss a concert at the Conservatory, and you can not tell Mozart from Beethoven - how not to try, to make this guy want to communicate with you, it's unlikely to work either.
You will say that there are lots of couples where she does not know a drop in his affairs or hobbies. I agree, who argues? But! Have you spoken to any of these couples? Talk! And you'll hear that there she was not puzzled over how to get this guy (or man), but he did not close the nights at night, trying to figure out how to conquer it. Do you catch the difference?
How to achieve the love of a guy?
Well, it's a long road in the dunes ... Although I do not know if I understood your question correctly, since you can achieve the love of any man (or boyfriend) only when you are already communicating with him - at least on a friendly level. Why? You obviously will not like the answer, because you will find it too outdated and bookish, but I still say.
You are not loved for your appearance. You are loved for your soul. And that he could understand it and understand if it's half, it takes time. That is why the strongest love does not always become love. While a purely friendly relationship often grows into love. But maybe you wanted to ask how to achieve not the love, but the attention of the guy?
How to get the guy's attention?
In principle, dyeing in crimson color - this is also one of the ways. But I understand what you meant. I will repeat once more. A person should be with you interesting - and his attention to you will not dry out ever. So do not try to decide how you can get this particular guy's attention. Try to understand what and how you can achieve that any guy (a man, and in general a person) will be interested in having business with you. Man is a herd animal, and your chosen one is not an exception. He will go where the whole crowd is going.
Somehow, many years ago, we a big company left for a few days outside the city. At our disposal was a beautiful old manor with a splendid garden and a magnificent grand piano that stood in one of the living rooms. You know, around whom our guys were rending all those days that we spent there? Around the nondescript girl, who sat down every evening for this piano, and played us.
Is it worth it to get a guy?
Who asked this question? Stand up please. I want to applaud you very loudly. At the very beginning, I said that in the question "How to achieve a guy?" I really do not like the word "achieve". Now I will explain why. To achieve-beat-beat ... Everything that is yours, always comes to you easily and without suffering, and you do not need to fight for it at all. But the main secret is that Nature does not like,
It's not you who have to be tormented by how you get the guy's attention. It must be for hours under your window. This is not you have to worry about how to achieve the love of a guy. It's his friends who need to tell you how he's afraid of losing you.
... You can go on a compromise with anyone - but not with yourself. Because in ten years you will remember that it was not he who bought frozen daffodils for you at the metro in the winter, but you tried to catch his smile, word, look, humbly and sadly ...