Each woman faced a situation in which it was necessary to attract the attention of the man he liked, and he knows that serious difficulties sometimes arise. The chosen person can not notice the lady point-blank, take care of one's own affairs, look with a bored look into the void ...
In this situation, flirtation and coquetry are real saviors, which allow you to take the first step so that the man will be sure that the first one noticed you, drew attention, attracted and achieved. For him, this is a real victory and a welcome trophy, and it is not necessary to dedicate it to all nuances.
The Art of Coquetry
Almost every woman knows how to flirt, despite the fact that they rarely teach this. Basically, everything is comprehended intuitively, by trial and error. It can be safely said that women's coquetry is inherent in nature itself.
A languid look from under the eyelashes, a slight smile, coy behavior, soft gestures, elegant posture - all this coquetry in its pure form. Who among us did not use these techniques, even if unconsciously? Usually, in the company of an attractive man, the hand itself stretches to straighten the hair, the head is inclined to the side, and in the eyes of burning sincere interest.
Coquetry works always if your interest is sincere. It allows you to achieve amazing results, including the fact that a man can not imagine his life without you, carry it to the registry office and not let him go to the end of his life. It's just that everyone needs to find their own approach.
Coquetry techniques
At the heart of coquetry lie sincerity, femininity, mystery. Men are by nature hunters and defenders, so their prey should be initially attractive, but inaccessible, and then fragile and tender. The main thing is not to let a man know at all that he means too much to you, otherwise he will quickly lose interest. For this, there are tricks of coquetry, which include partners in a real game.
- Specific gestures, features of behavior. An open look and a sincere smile will attract your attention to the interlocutor, and if you look at it a little longer than usual, and smile a little more than usual, he will understand that you are cute. Men are fascinated by the way a woman casually shakes her hair, straightens her hair, or starts thinking about it, stroking her collarbone. Elegant gestures and successful poses, which, as it were, accidentally emphasize the dignity of the figure, should also be in the arsenal of every woman. All this will allow you to remember the interlocutor for a long time and make you look for new meetings.
- Inaccessibility. As noted earlier, do not give a man that he has achieved his time ahead. This will be useful for late arrivals and sudden cancellation of visits, dozens of missed calls and unanswered messages, sudden suspension and loss of interest. However, you should be very careful that your partner does not feel that you have nothing to do with him and he did not lose interest and did not go in search of more tractable booty. Alternate these techniques with expressions of interest and sympathy and gradually reduce their number, but do not forget that the puzzle must remain always.
- Helplessness. In any situation, remain a woman. Even if you are able to repair the old Cossack yourself and hack into the Pentagon database, it will be more useful for a man to leave all his exploits to him and inevitably frighten the little spider to death. However, sometimes you can demonstrate your skills, causing admiration and supporting the belief in your uniqueness.
A man in skilled hands will even after 20 years of living together day after day achieve you again and again and forever will remain a boy in love. A wonderful way to turn your life into a fairy tale, right?
Coquetry of men
Male coquetry is seriously different from female, although the goal is the same - attracting attention and maintaining interest. If you remember that flirting is an interesting game, the man in it is assigned the role of a conqueror, that is, when a lady demonstrates her weakness, he shows his strength, masculinity, reliability, convinces her that he is ready to shield from any adversity. Few men understand the essence of this game and participate in it unconsciously and spontaneously, so women are quite difficult in some situations, because in the actions and words of the partner they see much more meaning than what he actually invests in.