It's interesting how the national traits of the husband's character affect the strength of marriage, is it worth considering where the man was born before agreeing to a marriage proposal?
How could we not have known this before? It turns out that the boat of a successful, seemingly family life, is often broken due to ignorance of the national characteristics of the husbands' character by the wives. Marrying a foreigner, a girl from the post-Soviet space believes that she received a lucky lottery ticket. But then follows a feeling of deep disappointment, since the husband does not at all resemble a fairy-tale prince. So, who from the overseas and European residents is most suitable for the role of husband?
The girl who decided to connect life with family ties with a resident of another country will have to take into account that it is not customary to throw money abroad, even to win the heart of a Slav beauty. Sometimes a man can give the impression of being greedy, as he does not want to hit a potential bride with a thick purse, pouring her way with bouquets of roses and jewelry trinkets. Will the attitude to the wife change?
1. American - who are you, Mr. X?
For a long time it was believed that marriage with an American is the most profitable enterprise. Leaving the ocean, the girl was sure that the fate of her is cloudless, ahead - a life filled with well-being. However, not always the picture is so perfect. First of all, it is difficult to say which national features of the chosen one will become more evident after the wedding. America is a multi-ethnic country, where criminals from Europe have been referring to for centuries, and younger family representatives have traveled in the hope of seizing their chance. However, some of the traits of the character with the passage of generations entrenched almost all the men of the United States.
Looking for his wife abroad, an American tries to find a woman who will become the mainstay of home comfort. In this country, feminism has blossomed not so long ago, and in a provincial town the woman is still difficult to make a career. Its task is to manage the economy, educate children and support the authority of the husband in everything.
Do not expect, marrying an average American, that for the sake of his beloved, he will be ready for a big waste. Of course, the concept of credit - for the American is quite natural, but he will not spoil his credit history, rubbish in money. The possibility of buying comfortable housing in a prestigious area and an expensive car is carefully calculated. A girl from the CIS can really shock how much Americans care about the dollar, looking everywhere for the opportunity to save a few cents.
Here it is customary to constantly praise your children, to patronize, but not to interfere with the control of life on your own. The growing youngster will not be put out of the house as soon as he reaches the age of majority, but they will not interfere in their search for themselves. A familiar feature that unites the Slavic peoples and the inhabitants of the United States, is not it? However, unlike us, Americans do not seek to open their souls even to people who are genuinely considered close. Digging in subtle soul strings is a matter for psychologists, not for relatives. Therefore, it is possible to forget about meetings with friends with complaints about an unfulfilled life.
2. French - tenderness, gallantry, art?
France is a country of painting, poetry, fashion. Maybe that's why, thinking of French men, ladies from the CIS represent a gallant chevalier, wrapped in a train of romance, chanting a lady in verse. In fact, the French at a closer acquaintance may seem too frivolous, seeking pleasure and not too bothering themselves with responsibilities.
Indeed, even on a cloudy morning a Frenchman will find the reason to laugh, because life itself is an occasion for joy. However, this does not mean that the person living next to you differs magnanimity. For the Frenchman, the opinion of others is of great importance. He is too painful to endure situations that present him in a disadvantageous light. In addition, the potential servant of Muses in the opinion of foreigners is mercantile. He will not reconcile with divorce, will try to "knock out" all the material components that he has laid down and for a long time will work diligently on the nerves of his ex-wife.
However, is it worth to think about divorce when you have a real romantic? Nobody, like a Frenchman, can look admiringly at the Lady of his heart, let go of gallant remarks, hold on to the elbow when leaving the taxi. The Frenchman will not reproach his wife for not being able to cook or clean an apartment, it will not be difficult for him to walk through all the corners of the home with a vacuum cleaner or spend the day with the baby. Although, it must be taken into account that feminism in France is well developed and, inviting the girl to a cafe, the man is sure that she will pay for her supper.
3. German - honesty, multiplied by diligence
Different nationalities - one mentality. Probably, these are the most practical European men. The Germans tend to be straightforward and democratic in relations, and this has a plus. They will always honestly say that they are not happy and will be offered to jointly find a solution to the urgent problem. A respectable citizen of Germany is sure that his wife must work. But it is not necessary to postpone the stash, because the money was created in order to spend it. And the best goal for this is to create better conditions for family and travel. Therefore, almost every family in Germany leaves for the weekend in neighboring countries - to get acquainted with their beauty, get a charge of vivacity.
4. Austrian - home comfort and family values
The Austrians and Germans practically do not differ in national character traits. They are benevolent and calm, at the forefront they put home comfort. If the girl decided to link her life with the Austrian, she most likely will have to master mountain skiing urgently, since in this country only babies who can not stand still do not ride from the mountains. Another small feature - in Austria they are sure that each of its inhabitants has aristocratic roots and are proud of the long history of their family.
4. Swiss - stability and confidence
Equally respectable and affable are the Swiss. They are very good at emigrants, but they do not like sudden changes. Therefore, to marry a foreigner is in no hurry. Years may pass before the Swiss decides to take such a step.
5. Italian - the passion of a big child
If in life there is not enough violent emotion, perhaps your fairy prince is a resident of hot Italy. No one knows how to express his inner state vigorously. Joint life will be full of jealousy and will not seem boring. Despite the glory of sweethearts, the Italians are distinguished by the constancy - the wife for them is a holy creature, who is accepted to sing praises. Believe me, an Italian man knows how to do this, since from birth has an excellent taste and creativity.
Such a man can sing serenades in the middle of the night in the middle of a private balcony or roll up a scandal with a beat of services. Therefore it is difficult to hide from neighbors what is happening in the family. Men love kids and pamper them excessively - this is an undoubted plus of marriage with a representative of Italy. However, Paradise does not exist on earth, there is a tiny spoon of tar in each barrel of honey.
If the wife is holy, then the mother is for any Italian, at least Madonna. Already an adult, an Italian man does not cease to be a child, he admires the woman who gave him life, and strictly follows all her advice. If you enter into a confrontation with your mother-in-law, you will most likely lose. Therefore, you should carefully consider each step, constantly show how lucky you are to meet such an ideal man, and emphasize the dignity of his mother.
By the way, despite the passion of character, bringing an Italian to the temple is not so simple. The divorce laws in this country are rather confusing, and the process of divorce can last for years. Therefore, the average Italian marries late, when he realizes that this woman is ideally suited for the role of spouse.
6. Scandinav - a man with a capital letter!
Studying the mores of men living abroad, one can not help coming to the conclusion that there is no ideal. Do not jump to conclusions. Do you dream of equality, understanding, respect? Pay attention to representatives of the Scandinavian countries.
It is here that the laws on the equality of women are worked out almost to perfection. Perhaps someone will think that the Scandinavians are too weak-minded, accustomed to look in the mouth of the most daring half, easily manageable. Everything is much simpler - Scandinavian men perceive a woman as an equal being, listen to her opinion and do not consider it shameful to engage in "women's" affairs. Such a spouse, if the career of the wife is more successful, can easily take leave to care for the child, and devote his life to raising a child.
It should be noted that the Scandinavian man is faithful. As a rule, they are not interested in extraneous ladies. Do you think this is due to the temperamental character? On the contrary, those who were fortunate enough to marry a Dane, Swede or Finn, note that their husbands are jealous enough, passionate and excellent in bed.
By the way, researchers from Oxford set a task - to find out which man of the nationality is best suited for the role of husband. Studies have shown that the ideal is a Swedish man who is ready at any moment to support the spouse, help her in the household and in the upbringing of children, and also does not perceive her girlfriends as objects of sexual hunting.