Man is far from being the only creature in nature who can enjoy himself by stimulating the sexual organs.
And the fact that people masturbated from time immemorial is confirmed by numerous rock paintings (of different peoples) and, for example, such facts that it was the duty of the Egyptian pharaohs to drop seeds into the waters of the Nile at one time. The ancient Greeks and Romans did not see anything shameful in getting pleasure of this kind, making special adaptations for these purposes. It was masturbation for a long time considered one of the methods of treatment of female hysteria .
If historical examples are not authoritative for you, think: masturbation is a great way for girls to learn about their body, find erogenous zones, relax and relieve tension . In addition, if your partner turns out to be stingy (or the pose is not very successful), you can help yourself to reach the peak of pleasure.
Ways of female masturbation
Although the methods of female masturbation for obtaining orgasm and there is a large number (this is dictated by both individual characteristics of the organism and psychological preferences), we can distinguish several most popular techniques:
- stroking the clitoris with fingers (fur, velvet, plumage), rubbing;
- affection of the clitoris, labia;
- often female masturbation is accompanied by the introduction of foreign objects in the vagina;
- some women can reach orgasm by squeezing their hips;
- is popular with girls and masturbation by putting a shower spray on the genitals;
- some women are starting from images. Female masturbation on the camera is common (video can be used for viewing during sex).
Lessons of female masturbation
1. Preparation
If you honestly do not know how to caress yourself, let's try to correct this annoying misunderstanding. It is very important that nothing distracts you for the first time. Lighting is better muted, add music next time - even it can knock you down. For relaxation, you can take a warm bath, adding a few drops of aromatic oil.
2. Let's start
Lie on your back, spreading your legs. With warm fingers, gently touch the area between the legs. You can cover the vagina completely with the palm of your hand, realize where your hand lies. Then start to study. Move gently, trying which parts respond to the touch. Some women, for example, like the easy stroking of the clitoris in a circle, others excite movements from side to side. If the touch to the clitoris does not seem very pleasant or even painful, raise your hand a little higher. Not necessarily pleasant sensations will capture you from the first seconds. Study yourself.
3. Additional stimulation
If the long-awaited discharge does not come, try adding heavy artillery:
- with your free hand, caress your nipples;
- give vent to imagination: imagine everything that comes to mind. Do not criticize or edit pictures in your head;
- try to moan loudly. Groans or screams often bring the culmination, even if a woman masturbates not very successfully. You can shout a couple of dirty words, no censorship;
- try to resort to the help of a vibrator. Before inserting the vibrator inside, attach it to the external genitalia. It is not necessary to introduce it to the end, all sensitive locations are not so deep.
And the most important advice: remember that you do not pass the exam, but do the most enjoyable research - the study of your body. Over time, everything will happen!