Do you think that you are perfect and you can not irritate your man? There is a great way to check this and see if you have any habits that cause aggression and negativity.
Want to look at yourself from the other side and find out what can annoy your lover in your behavior? Specialists conducted a survey among men who had a long relationship, asking what most irritated them in women. That's what came out of it.
1. Foolish holidays.
Many girls are sure that their partners should know the dates of all events in their life, even those that do not matter much, for example, the day you first went to the cinema or embraced. For men, it looks like nonsense, and the resentment that such dates are erased from his memory are ridiculous.
2. Tell us about your past.
Many ladies experience a strange and unreasonable interest in the past relationship of their partner. Why make him remember the former ladies, because you are near? This is very strange and can not help annoying.
3. Well, tell me, is it fat?
Admit, how many times a day you ask this question to your chosen one, who is already tired of coming up with compliments to cajole you and not provoke a conflict. Women usually exaggerate the scale of the tragedy, wanting just to hear the words of love. Representatives of the stronger sex recommend choosing a different tactic.
4. Know the norm.
For a man, the attention of a woman is important, but when it is dosed and does not turn into a hyperope. In such situations, it becomes difficult to breathe. Stop calling your lover every half hour, feed him with a spoon, check if he's dressed warmly, believe me, for this he has a mother.
5. Lack of trust.
James Bond nervously smokes on the sidelines, when a jealous woman takes over. Checking phones and social networks, eavesdropping conversations, snooping - and this is only the minimum of what the ladies are capable of. All this not only causes irritation, but also kills the relationship.
6. Provocations for jealousy.
Yes, men are conquerors, but constantly provoking them on emotions, flirting with others is a wrong tactic. Believe me, a couple in which a woman flirts with other men, and her partner at this time boils, looks both strange and funny.
7. Is not a man telepathic?
It is not clear when women decided that men should, no, have to guess their thoughts. Representatives of the stronger sex are on the verge of an explosion when they hear something like: "And you yourself guess?", "It was difficult to guess?". Do not want disappointments, speak directly, and do not play puzzles.
8. Everywhere this hair.
Many men complain that they are tired of finding women's hair everywhere: on the floor, sofa, in the bathroom and so on. If you do not want to upset your chosen one, consider this nuance.
9. Manipulation of tears.
The certainty that there will be tears in a win-win tactic, believe me, is not backed up. In fact, polls have shown that many men tear irritation and, on the contrary, cause an attack of aggression. It is not necessary to cry for any reason, because it is very difficult to pity the representatives of the stronger sex.
10. Universal justification.
Another situation familiar to many, when the justification for their failure sounds like this: "I'm a girl." This can work when you need to hammer a nail into the wall, and not when you need to act as an adult and be responsible for your actions.
11. Criticism of others.
This is probably the nature of many women, to discuss others and, especially, other representatives of the weaker sex. To ridicule the shortcomings of others is not only ugly, but also testifies to stupidity and low or overestimated self-esteem. Men next to gossip women feel uncomfortable, and in their head they only hear one phrase: "Close your mouth!".
12. Do you love me?
Here count, how many times a day you ask your chosen one, does he love you or not? For a man, such interrogations look like torture, which causes furious irritation. Representatives of the stronger sex in most cases believe that if they once said about their feelings and are nearby, then nothing has changed, and you do not need to ask about love.
13. Blackmail with sex.
A very stupid mistake that only causes aggression in men and destroys the relationship. If a woman refuses sexual intercourse, trying to punish a partner, she pushes him "to the left."
14. He's so bad, pity me.
In any conflict or misdemeanor of a man, you run to the phone to complain about it to your mom or girlfriends. This is a huge mistake, which irritates and lowers below the skirting board. Understand, you will reconcile with your chosen one, and my mother and friends will continue to consider him a "goat".
15. I will do everything myself.
Men want to feel their superiority and importance to match the "strong sex". Believe me, they will not like it if their darling will screw in a light bulb, repair a faucet and so on.
16. Let's talk about the wedding.
Relationships began recently, and there were already talks about the wedding, understand - in most cases it repels. Better let it go on as usual, and when a man is sure, he will certainly rise on one knee.