Diversity in bed is good, but how terrible it is when a partner suggests trying something new. Here, for example, anal sex - the first time and scary, and uncomfortable, and painful. Therefore, for the first such experience, women often agree only after prolonged persuasion and with great reluctance. The result is a lack of pleasure for both partners and a strong refusal of the ladies to repeat such a bad experience. So how correctly, painlessly to do anal sex for the first time? Let's start with the preparation for this exciting process.
How to have anal anal sex without pain
Correct anal sex is, first of all, preparation for it, especially if all the delights of this process you will experience for the first time. Anus nature for sex is not intended and does not have the same elasticity as the vagina. That is why when you try to penetrate, you can also feel pain and injure this part of your body. To avoid this, it is better to try to practice your anus a few days before the act itself. You can do this by armed with an expander from a sex shop. And you can use your own fingers (cut short nails) for this purpose, lubricated with petroleum jelly. Before the beginning of such training it is desirable to relax, for example, by taking a warm bath. Avoiding unpleasant sensations will help and excitement. How to achieve it - with the help of a partner or yourself - decide for yourself.
Correct anal sex involves the pleasure of both partners, and not painful sensations. Therefore, for the act you need to buy a lubricant designed specifically for these purposes. Such lubricants have anti-inflammatory and disinfecting properties. Oil-based lubricants should not be used if you use condoms made of latex.
How should you practice anal sex? If the term "correctly" we mean "safe", then immediately the idea arises of the need for protection. Even if the partner is permanent and you are used to not using condoms with condoms, then you should stock them for anal sex. In the vagina and rectum there are specific bacteria that can not be stirred. That's why it is not recommended to mix anal sex with vaginal. If you still decide to do this, you should definitely change the condom and wash your genitals.
What do you think, because of what women are afraid to have anal sex? The pain and, correctly, the fear that the partner will leave traces of stool. You should not be afraid of this: firstly, the lubricant you will use will not allow anything to stick to the condom. And secondly, during the frictions the feces will be pushed inside, so nothing sticks. But emptying the intestines before intercourse is still worth it, it will allow you to relax better. And of course, you can not forget about the rules of hygiene - the anus needs to be washed with soap or with the help of intimate hygiene.
How to act during the process?
Well, the partner in anticipation, you also prepared. What should I do next, how to start anal sex? It is better to start preparing the anal opening for penetration when you are already sufficiently excited by the prelude. At this very moment the partner should begin to caress your anus (fingers, tongue - it does not matter how you like it). When caresses do their work and you relax, you can proceed to the second phase - the introduction of his finger in the anus. And the finger, and the anus, of course, should be abundantly lubricated with a lubricant. The finger should be entered gradually, making circular movements, expanding the anus. When these actions are well received by you, you can proceed to an attempt to introduce a penis - the condom lubricant is not enough, so it is better to use the lubricant additionally. It is not necessary to hurry up here, after penetration it is necessary to stop and wait until the body gets used to it. After that, you can continue to move, but only smooth, sharp jerks can hurt. If there are painful sensations, it is better to interrupt the act in order to avoid injuries.