To begin with, it is wrong to make a child do anything. Your child, even small, but a person. So, you can always agree with him and explain what you want from him. The main thing is to start doing this from early childhood, especially when it comes to lessons. We will deal with the problem gradually.
The child does not want to do homework
While your baby walked into the garden, there was no problem. He was happy to do all the tasks, gladly resorted to help in domestic affairs. And suddenly, at school it was changed. Do not forget that homework is systematically and daily unusual for the child. He gets tired, attention is dissipated, and the kid simply loses interest and motivation.
Another reason why a child does not want and does not teach lessons, can be psychological discomfort. It happens that there is apparently no sign of concern. Do not forget, your baby is inside a new collective: teachers and classmates. And it is important to determine how the relationship develops with them. Quite often there are situations when, due to some mistakes, your baby is ridiculed, and teachers do not attach importance to it, but the child develops fear and fear of further mistakes - he simply is afraid to perform assignments. The special danger of this situation is that a child can become locked in himself, shut off from the world. There is a high probability of inhibition and, in the future, a neurosis. If you are faced with a similar situation - immediately contact a child psychologist at school. Without professional help here can not cope! If this cause is not eliminated, the child may later develop neurosis, which flows into nervous breakdowns and problems with the psyche.
How to teach a child to do homework?
Your task, as a parent, is to help the child correctly allocate time for tasks and recreation. Be sure to make a schedule, enter a mode to teach the child to sit at home assignments on time.
First after school you need not only to have dinner, but also to rest. Agree with your child that you can not deviate from the routine. Talk to him about the penalties. For example, at the time deprivation of pleasure: excommunication from the phone, computer. To prohibit as punishment the lessons in the sections can not be - with the onset of school time, the time for physical exertion and so sharply decreased.
When you start working, immediately place the textbooks and notebooks on the left on the table. As you complete the tasks, shift them to the right side. So the child visually will follow the process.
How to persuade a child to do homework?
Explain to your child that studying is primarily for him, for his development and growth, and not for his parents. At first, your child will simply need your help. With junior schoolchildren, the method of "switching places" works very well. A schoolboy will be very pleased to be in the role of a teacher and teach you something or explain the material. This will help to motivate the child to learn the lessons. Transform the performance of easy tasks into a game - if the kid needs to remember something, paste over the apartment a piece of paper with text or a poem.
How to help the child with the lessons?
Does the child do lessons? Your help will be more in the other. You must teach him:
- independently to find out incomprehensible moments in school at teachers;
- memorize the necessary information;
- independently monitor the quality of the work performed.
Remember! You do not have to do homework for your children! But they need to know that they can always rely on you, ask for help or advice.
Younger schoolchildren demand great patience and boundless love. It is now important to support them without leaving them alone with problems. Take care and take care of your children!