Energy vampires are not a myth, they are reality. There are people who feed on someone else's energy - for this they bring close people, or even strangers to emotions , from which they experience a kind of pleasure. After contact with such a person, anyone will feel overwhelmed and exhausted. The energy vampire in the family is especially dangerous. In this case, it is especially important to master the techniques of psychological defense.
How to learn the energy vampire?
The ability to recognize such people is the first step towards confronting them and preserving their psychic energy. However, do not panic if, for example, your husband is an energy vampire. Most likely, he does it unconsciously.
So, man is an energy vampire, if:
- after a scandal such a person does not look oppressed, but cheered up;
- after talking with such a person you are irritated and feel tired, even if everything was fine before that;
- a person can constantly complain and demand attention and sympathy;
- after communicating with a person there is drowsiness;
- this person often turns out to be in the center of a scandal, likes to figure out the relationship;
- some "vampires" are the soul of the company, everyone loves them, they look funny, but from time to time they can interfere in someone else's personal space;
- this person is inclined to complain for a long time, but never do anything to change the situation.
To learn how to get rid of an energy vampire, it is worthwhile to master special techniques. If you do not give him energy, he will go in search of a victim, which will be easier.
How to resist energy vampires?
The main amulet from energy vampires is a conscious attitude towards them. When you see that you are taken to emotion, it is important to behave correctly.
- Stay calm, do not enter into conflict with the vampire, keep yourself in hand.
- Do not look at the vampire in the eye - it's better on the bridge of the nose or just avoid looking.
- Learn to say "no" when you do not want to do something.
- If you do not want to spend your energy, use protective closed poses: arms crossed on the chest, legs together or crossed.
- Use the amulet - an ordinary pin. It is necessary to fasten it to clothes in an inconspicuous place.
- If you feel bad after contact with a vampire, stand by the birch, oak or pine.
How to live with an energy vampire? - you ask. It's very simple: do not give in to provocation, help a person to realize his essence and teach his family to behave correctly in the situation of attack.