Good and evil, love and hate, loyalty and betrayal. Every word has an antipode to itself, without knowing one, we will never know what the other is. Betrayal, as a rule, meets almost everyone. And this is one of the most painful feelings, especially the betrayal of a loved one , since treason is betrayal. The period after the betrayal must be properly passed and, perhaps, in the end, you even get to forgive betrayal , but only brave and wise people can do it. And if you decided on this, you still need to know how to properly forgive betrayal.
Rules of adaptation during the betrayal
- In the first place, it is necessary to make sure that the mind takes over the feelings. Shouts, tantrums will lead to nothing, they will not help to survive, especially if it concerns such as to survive the betrayal of a loved one. It is necessary to master yourself and calmly judge the situation.
- The second step is to focus on some thing, on close people, friends, but not on the person who betrayed you. It is not necessary to completely stop communicating with him, only if necessary, to do this.
- It is not enough to consider the current situation many times, considering all aspects of its occurrence. It is necessary to consider the reasons, as well as their elimination, since the participant of betrayal is not one person. You need to know your shortcomings. Which
could serve in this case for the benefit of betrayal. - Now we can move on to communication and clarify the further existence or revival of relations. In cases with a loved one, it is difficult, because not everyone can survive the betrayal of a loved one and simply surrender without continuing to fight. It is necessary to be able to rebuild plans for the future, constantly stipulating that this will be done together.
Paradoxically, betrayal of many is good, strengthening relations in the future. And those who managed to survive it, should be a vivid example for others.