Each of us has some principles that we are not ready to let go of in any case. But sometimes we are hostage to circumstances. Here, for example, many people have a rule not to have romances with married men. Is it difficult to check the presence of an engagement ring on a man's finger before giving him his phone number? In principle, no difficulties, but only if the man wears a ring, and in fact many, wanting to relax, remove the ring, misleading the girls. And it's good, if one meeting was held, and what to do when the relationship went far? How to live if you love a married man?
I love a married man, what to do?
You can say a thousand times that loving a married man is wrong, and in every way condemn those who are in this situation. But, despite all the principles and beliefs, love triangles are not so rare and many women, being caught up in such relationships, are looking for the best solution. That's just the best option: to continue to love a married man or try to forget it? Both solutions have their pros and cons, it's up to you to decide in any case.
Love to take care!
I love a married man, what to do? Of course, to stay with him, because love is a miracle and you can not be scattered by such feelings. So many women will say, but most of those who give such advice, never fell in love with unfree men. Yes, you can leave it as it is, rejoice at infrequent meetings and drive away the thought that this time he lied to his wife. Trying not to hate weekends and holidays for the fact that this time everyone is spending with a family that is not due to feelings for a married man. Again and again, to no avail, to find an answer to the question of why they love married people, and why this has happened to you. For a long time it is impossible to live and soon it will be necessary to make a choice - to part with a man or try to take him away from the family.
If the thoughts of separation are still unbearable, then it remains only to destroy someone else's family. How to tie a man to himself knows every woman, but is it worth it to do? Against this step, there are several arguments.
- Are you sure that this is the man you need to create a family? Passion and love will pass, but what will remain? Will it not happen that you have destroyed someone else's happiness, but you have not found yours?
- There is an opinion that it is not possible to build one's happiness on someone else's misfortune, and indeed, the percentage of those who have a happy life with a stranger is small. Maybe this karma works, but maybe the ladies made the wrong choice, who knows?
- Think, if a man so much time deceived his lawful wife, and then was able to leave her, then what would prevent him from doing it another time? To console yourself with the thought that you are special and will be able to keep the "walker" stupid.
How to forget your beloved married man?
And what if your own principles do not allow you to continue to meet with a married man, or do you understand that such relationships have no prospects, to sever ties and try to forget? But is it possible to forget the man you love, even if married?
Why not? As the inscription on Solomon's ring reads, "Everything passes. This too shall pass". Most likely what you think now love for a married man is nothing more than a hobby, affection, perhaps strong, but nothing more. Therefore, you can fight your feelings.
- If you decide to end the relationship, you need to do this here and now, do not have any last meetings, do not plan a break in a day, a week, a month. Just explain to the man that you want to stop the relationship with him, why do you want to do this and end all communication on this. Phone number - away from the notebook, and with it all the memories - the more you return to the past,
the more difficult it will be to break the relationship. - Do not rush immediately into a new relationship, and even more so, to marry the first person on the line. Otherwise, you will be tormented by the question, I am married and I love married - what to do?
- In general, avoid rash actions - everything that happened to you happened at the behest of emotions, try to stay in the power of the mind.
We can say that a relationship with a married man is freedom, the opportunity to look for another man (wait for the prince), not denying himself the joys of sex, but is this love?