Each family has its own rules and responsibilities for each member of the family. Someone is responsible for the order in the house, someone is cooking dinner, someone is taking out the garbage, and someone is going to the store with a list of products. Of course, at the initial stage of creating a family, all this work falls on a woman, it is inevitable and it is natural.
The duties of men in the family should be somewhat different. But this does not mean that men "live better". Show respect, dear ladies.
To men for a note
Male responsibilities in the family are based on the creation of conditions in which both women and children would feel protected. This does not mean the installation of an armored door and grilles on windows. A family in which there is material wealth, comfortable living conditions are created, harmony reigns between the spouses, and happy children run around the house - this is a protected family. It follows that a man needs (I do not like the word "must"):
- to be the head of the family, to be the breadwinner. Making decisions and providing for the family financially is a worthy and hard work;
- be a "man". What a woman will be in a family, her behavior depends on the conditions that a man creates around his wife. Inattention and neglect of a woman, her husband's inability to make decisions and be a "man", unwillingness to be the head of the family will eventually give him a grumpy hysterical woman who will have to take a lot of things into her own hands, including her husband;
- be a "father." The duties of the pope in the family are inextricably linked with the creation of authority in the eyes of children. To be a worthy example for the son and the future "faith in men" for his daughter is not an easy task. Taking care of the child from the first days of his life, educating and loving his child is a common responsibility of the parents. The father should give the child time and show concern, because it is much more pleasant to hear from the child "dad" than "uncle".
Women, take care of men and be an inspiration to them.