Strangely enough, but sometimes it is better not to talk about anything with a guy at all - it's just silence that can bring you closer to him sometimes. But such moments do not happen so often, besides, for this you already have to know each other well enough. Therefore, communication, indeed, remains the basis of any relationship.
How to learn to talk to guys?
If you work in a purely male team or have an older brother whose friends often come to your house, the question of how to talk to a man or a guy is unlikely to take you. If there are no such convenient accidents in your life, you really will have to think about how and where you can learn to talk with men or guys - so that your communication is interesting to them.
To begin with, learn not to be afraid of men's society, and start a conversation, as they say, from scratch, about nothing. In order not to be misunderstood, choose places where you can reasonably ask a guy or a man for advice, help or his opinion about something. Supermarkets, specialized shops, gyms, theaters, conferences - find an excuse to ask a question, or something to ask him. Do not despise these tiny drills! Very imperceptibly they will teach you to intuitively feel how to properly talk and behave with a man or a guy.
The next option is to help yourself understand how to talk with a guy - to watch a woman or a girl whose communication with the male half of humanity you are jealous of, and to which you would like to be like. True, there is one important subtlety. Before trying on someone's behavior, make sure that it fits you. After all, even among the world's celebrities, someone is very encouraging to you, and someone, on the contrary, is simply unnerving, is not it?
Therefore, if in your environment there is a girl whose behavior and manners in communication with men you want and can copy - do it! Watch her to understand how and what you can talk with a guy. Do not hesitate to practice at home, in front of the mirror. Remember that every star of the screen spent many hours in front of him, trying to choose how she needs to smile and talk. Communication with a guy or a man is also an art that needs to be learned.
How correctly to talk to the guy?
Use only the literary language - this is perhaps the main rule. If in communication with friends you do not think about how you talk, you need to watch this when you start talking with a guy.
The man primarily appreciates in you what is not in him, namely, femininity. You can do boxing or martial arts - it does not matter. The main thing is that in oral communication with the guys you remember that you are given the happiness to read in the original Chekhov and Turgenev. A beautiful, correct speech will be appreciated by every worthy guy or man.
What do guys like to talk about?
Of course, about their "male" themes. Sport, computers, we (girls and women) - the first thing that came to mind. But all this guy used to discuss with his friends or friends. What can he talk to you about?
Every guy, in the first place, is the most common person. He also has his weaknesses, fears, habits, sympathies. So do not be nervous and do not worry about how and what you should talk to him about. Just let the guy tell you about himself - calmly
If your acquaintance has just begun, he experiences the same confusion at meetings as you do - do not forget this. Try to be natural, without trying through force, by all means, to maintain any conversation - and do not demand the same from him.
Do not be shy about talking about yourself. Tell him about your thoughts, beliefs, interests. About what takes you in this life, what you are striving for, what bothers you in the world around you. A person can be interesting to other people only when he is filled with content, when he has something to talk about, and the case with your boyfriend is no exception. Do not be afraid to appear funny in your habits or attachments. You are a person, and your friend will appreciate it.
Do not tolerate and do not put up with compromises that hurt you. If you tell him that every evening you go out into the street to feed stray dogs or cats, and he openly and sincerely laugh at this - believe me, you better leave.