Recently, quite often you can hear about some magic techniques that allow you to change your life for the better. These include NLP - neurolinguistic programming, which is also called the technique of mind manipulation. It allows you to entice the interlocutor to your side without long convictions and bringing a lot of evidence. The beauty of NLP is that there is no impact "on the forehead." A person is sincerely convinced that all the phrases spoken by the interlocutor are a reflection of his own thoughts, but who does not agree with himself? For professional negotiators, such skills are undoubtedly necessary, but can NLP be useful for girls who want to gain popularity from the opposite sex?
NLP techniques for women on a date
To begin with, it is worth mentioning that now we are not talking about male limitation - we are all used to thinking according to a certain scheme, only a few have real non-standard thinking, but these techniques are useless to apply to them. Also, do not use NLP to communicate with those who are familiar with these techniques - no one likes to be manipulated. And to the person constantly working with NLP, for example, to the psychologist or to the expert in marketing, your attempts and at all will be ridiculous. So be careful.
So, what can help NLP techniques for women on a date?
- Everyone knows that men need to be praised. So do it! If you know about any shortcomings or they will be found out at a meeting, praise them for a man, turning his flaws into virtues. For example, he will complain about his clumsiness, convince him that it is very nice.
- Recall how lovers communicate - they have similar expressions, intonations, even gestures. This is all because they are on the same wavelength, they look at the world in a similar way. But who said that you can not tune in to the wave of another person at the first meeting? Try to take a similar pose first, if it does not cause rejection, try to copy the intonations and gestures. Just do it unobtrusively, so as not to create the impression that you are just teasing a person.
- Talk about the former for many girls on a date is banned, but NLP encourages such conversations. Ask the man what he liked about his ex-girlfriend, let him remember all the good things that were in their relationship. Then proceed to compliments, only speak as if on behalf of his ex, for example "she probably liked your strong hands so much". The next step the man needs to relax, for this purpose a small dose of alcohol or a slow dance is fine. About the growing position of the man will tell his desire to adapt to you. Check your guesses by changing your intonation or pose. If the interlocutor tries to copy it - it's yours. Look at the reaction of the partner, when he relaxes, go to a closer contact - touch the hand, press him a little more closely. If this does not cause his negative reaction, continue, if the man pulls back - go back to the conversation.
- What to do next depends on you. Want to intimacy, continue your caresses. You want a man to think about you, disappear without explanation, just say that you are in a hurry. The effect is bound to be! The fact is that with such a light trance and
positive memories of the former, the man begins to associate his pleasant sensations with you.
Of course, this is not all NLP techniques that can be useful for women, there are a lot of books on this topic. For example, "Since then, they have lived happily ever after" (L. Cameron-Baedler) or "NLP. Games in which women win "(Anwar Bakirov). Therefore, if the art of manipulation has interested you, read, experiment and achieve success. True, more often men are at our feet not due to female NLP, but thanks to the art of being a woman - tender, but demanding, sweet, but with claws.