Some ladies, parting with men, consoled themselves with the thought "But let it go, it will come back to me anyway." I wonder how often men actually return to the former and why they do it?
How often do men return?
Opinions differ on this score - no one conducted official research. Some ladies are puzzled why men throw, and then always come back. And this happens more often when a woman is already enjoying new relationships and has forgotten about the past. Other women doubt whether the former men always return, and whether this happens at all, because with them this has not happened. As we see, often the representatives of the stronger sex return to abandoned women, and so often this does not happen. So do not sit at the door and wait for him to decide to return, although you can not completely exclude such an opportunity. Well, in order to understand whether a call from the past will sound in your apartment, you need to understand in what cases the men return.
Why do men give up and then come back?
- He returned, because he realized that his happiness is here and nowhere else. This is the most desired for a gentle female heart, but, unfortunately, the rarest version of the development of events. After all, if a man leaves after a long relationship, then he usually goes to the prepared territory, to another woman. Well, why should he return in this case, to a woman who has ceased to be interesting for him? Romance is beautiful, but it happens more often on TV screens or book pages than in real life.
- And it happens that men leave the family, and then after a short period of time they return. Why does this happen, did they just compare two women and choose a wife? And here not. It often happens that with long-term relationships, men begin to lack novelty, while everything else suits them. In this case, a mistress gets involved, and sometimes men leave to live with another woman, but for a change. They did not intend to leave the family permanently, and therefore they return, after a short period of time.
- Standing apart are situations where a man, severing a relationship, returns, begins to beautifully look after and promises golden mountains. All would be nice, if not for one "but": he does it, when the woman thrown by it has adjusted its personal life and maybe is going to get married. Why do men return in this case? No matter how it sounds ugly, but such envious representatives of the stronger sex are usually driven by envy. The man heard that the woman he had thrown all was well, while his life was still unsettled, and decided that it was wrong. "She lost such a treasure, as I did not even think to put on my life a cross? What a nightmare, it is necessary to do something. " But how to fix the situation in this case? Do you want to wish you happiness and try to find your soul mate? But no, such men for some reason consider it their sacred duty to spoil the life of their former. So all courtship has only one goal - to upset the current relationship of a woman. As soon as it turns out, and you decide to give the returnee a chance, he will disappear - you do not need him.
- And here's another option. The couple broke up, from the man neither a call nor a letter, and suddenly on a rainy autumn night he calls (not always by phone, sometimes at the door) and starts nostalgic conversations about how lonely he is and how well you were together. Do you think, realized, came back and now everything will be all right for you? It, of course, is possible, but in life it almost never comes true. Most likely, such an unhappy and all abandoned man
just looking for a shelter for the night or two. Maybe he calls all his former girls in the hope that someone will take pity - do not feed women with bread, let someone regret it. How long do these men return? And immediately, how sad and lonely it becomes for them, the former is the ideal variant, it is no longer necessary to win it, and girls will have to spend a lot on clubs.
Now you know in what cases men return, and to the statements of "experienced heartbreakers", they say, he will definitely return, it is better to be skeptical. The man still does not boomerang, to always come back.