Karma can be described in one simple phrase from the New Testament: " Whoever strikes you on your right cheek, turn to him and the other ." We do not like this phrase and not in vain. A typical reaction is anger, aggression , rage, that is, do not substitute another, but on the contrary, give it to him. We have to admit that we are at the lowest level of development when we accumulate karma.
Karmic duty makes us responsible for our lives - want to improve it, work out the debt. But, nevertheless, he does not make our destiny predetermined, there is always a choice - to accumulate even more debt (retaliatory blow of the offender) or to work out, that is, to realize why it happened, and where you made a mistake.
Elaboration of karmic debts - awareness
The first stage in how to work out a karmic debt is to realize what it is. Do not go far into past lives, it is quite enough and the real sins that follow us all reincarnations.
There are two ways how to give karmic debt is repentance and suffering. Either realize and correct, or pay with illnesses and sufferings.
Therefore, if you are offended, do not rush to offend in return. Stop, remember, where this situation was repeated with you, when you acted as an offender. You will understand that you are now being treated in the same way as you once did with someone else. Recognize, repent - it means you have passed this karmic lesson.
Karmic duty - repentance
According to the Christian tradition, thousands, millions of people daily confess, but this does not mean that they get rid of their debts.
When a person realizes, he does not want it anymore.
If you can not get married in any way, remember the situation when such a chance presented itself to you, think about what and how you did wrong (and you are guilty, since you are still not married). Realizing where there was guilt, repenting of the stupid things, you will surely pass this duty and solve your problem.