Sex after birth - when you can?

It often happens that a doctor forbids having sex during pregnancy. Sometimes such a ban is set on the initial terms, sometimes at the end. But there are times when sexual intercourse is contraindicated throughout pregnancy. Then the couple is very concerned about the question of when the first sex after childbirth is possible.

The answer for each woman will be different. This is due to the fact that no one can foresee how the childbirth will pass. Therefore, all doctors can name only approximate terms, through how much you can have sex after childbirth.

Having sex after giving birth

After the birth of a child, a woman who until recently was herself a mistress, now obeys only the needs of her baby. And few of those who have recently given birth are thinking of love affairs. Usually all mothers, especially in the first three to four months after birth, only dream of rest and a full sleep. Nevertheless, to care for a loving wife and mother is not only about a defenseless baby, but also about a "helpless" wife.

Sex after childbirth can be practiced after about a month and a half, sometimes two months after childbirth. Do this before doctors do not advise, because:

• The woman's vagina does not have enough lubricant, which can lead to damage to the mucous membrane;
• if there are stitches, then during sexual intercourse they will deliver only pain sensations, and not pleasant ones, besides they can disperse, and "darn" everything in a new way is a process not for the faint-hearted;
• The presence of cracks and ruptures after childbirth in the vagina increases the risk of entering various infections.

But not all couples are able to withstand the set deadlines and begin to have sex before, regardless of the doctors' recommendations. But such "impatience" can lead to not very pleasant consequences.

Early sex after childbirth

After a long time, when sex was not the most active, but rather awkward, because of the round form of the body of a woman, I want to normally fully engage in this pleasant business. But do not hurry, because after birth you must first fully recover, and not have sex just one week after the birth of the baby.

The postpartum vagina is still in a state of shock, so to speak. Therefore, during sexual intercourse, pain may appear and it will not be possible to have fun. In addition, a woman may have a fear of sex or even worse - an aversion to it. So it's better to try to wait a little with this case so that then between spouses everything was fine in terms of intimate relationships.