In the modern world, with information of a sexual nature, you can collide everywhere: on TV, in the movies or just on street advertising posters. And you sat down, do not tell your child about it, sooner or later someone else will do it. Many parents are afraid to start this task, not knowing how to start and what they say. Psychologists unequivocally believe that telling a child is necessary honestly and simply. The main thing is to conduct a conversation in the most natural manner and try to do without long instructive lectures on the sexual education of children.
Sexual education of adolescents is to report information about:
- changes that occur in the body of a child during puberty;
- forms of sexual behavior;
- sexuality and orientation (homo, hetero, bi);
- venereal diseases;
- methods of contraception;
- first signs of pregnancy.
Sex education of boys
Sex education should be part of a general educational process that ensures the correct development of the personality of the boy as a representative of the stronger sex. Parents need to help the child master the norms of right relationships with members of the opposite sex, as well as the norms of behavior in society, to instill in him the confidence that he is the future defender and head of the family. It is important that the boy has a correct idea of puberty, hygienic skills and was ready for the emergence of pollutions. Also, during sexual development, one should try to protect the boys from too early awakening of sensitivity.
Sexual education of girls
To educate a woman ready for family life is the main task of sex education for a girl. She must timely realize herself as a representative of the weaker sex, master the skills of hygiene, and be able to behave properly with the boys. Girls, as they grow up, need to instill a sense of femininity, neatness, dignity, honor and shame. An important point in the sexual education of the girl is to bring the necessary information about menstruation, and when they appear, the mother should give the first information about the sexual life and the undesirable consequences.