Talk about how this cup of coffee with friends has long been not just a favorite pastime, but a real tradition. But how often happens that having discussed your affairs even with the most bosom friends, do you begin to notice discord in your relationship with your loved one, deterioration in your health and even an unforeseen material crisis?
Yes, we all know the saying that reveals the essence of a happy life: "silence is gold," but how hard is it to resist and not discuss with the girlfriend the child's behavior, criticism of her mother-in-law or a quarrel with her husband? And only a few know that telling people things that should remain a personal secret, you not only drive away your luck, but you can completely destroy your life!
Psychics and practices highlight 4 topics, which should be kept quiet, so as not to cause trouble:
1. Love Relationships
Whatever you say, and romantic or family relationships - this relationship is only between two people! But in a modern society to discuss a new "love story," betrayal, an unbearable nature of a half or to share news about personal life in social networks is no longer considered shameful. Only, alas, every word uttered out loud, exhausts and even completely destroys the energy of your couple. And the more conversations - the less it will remain for you two! The birth of relationships, families or even moments of disagreement is a mystery, and it is not worth looking for words of blessing or support from friends here. Exceptions are situations where you are in danger or the decision to part has already been taken.
2. Health and disease
Did you notice that recently even strangers in a few minutes of communication at a bus stop or in line, can make friends and find much in common, barely talking about sores? To many, this theme seems to be the main one in life, it causes genuine interest and sympathy in people, attracts their attention on the Net and on TV, and thereby - selects all life forces! And it turns out, everything is very simple - the yellow chakra is responsible for our ability to cope with everyday difficulties, but when you start complaining about health or discuss it with others, it is useless and quickly exhausted. To restore the yellow chakra and not allow life forces to go to waste, try to discuss such problems only with people (specialists) who will help you in your treatment.
3. Income and expenses
Another relevant topic that can be captivated in conversation is not one hour - it's your income, financial difficulties or material prosperity. And you are probably surprised now, why not discuss it more? So, your financial situation also has its own energy, or more precisely - your financial channel. And when discussing "material" questions, you thereby disclose it and allow the interlocutor to "draw" your money energy. Thus, at the time of the conversation, you are actually shifting your financial well-being into other people's hands or worse, giving financial success to your interlocutor! Only, alas, money failures can not be "transferred" to anyone, but talking about them, you can easily multiply them!
4. Mistakes of children
No matter how old the children are, they are connected with their parents by invisible threads all their lives. And such an energy connection is the strongest of all! But after discussing with your friend at work the trick of your child at school or choosing the "unreasonable child" of the second half, thereby you break your parental energy channel and deprive the child of parental protection. And even if such conversations seem to be an outlet for your heart, they will only affect the situation in a destructive way and may throw additional problems in your life to children. But our ancestors were right when they taught us not to take rubbish out of the hut ...