Husbands-house tyrants - this is a fairly common phenomenon. A woman often hides that her husband is a tyrant, but she needs the advice of a psychologist to know how to behave with him.
How to resist a husband - a tyrant and a manipulator?
The tyrant is a neurotic, possessed by a complex of power and assertive at the expense of other people. He is not able to give priority in any situation, but if you quench your thirst for power at work, it does not work, he begins to "build" the household. Any woman who concluded that her husband is a tyrant , one has to find an answer to the question of how to live with him.
Psychologists recommend to follow certain rules that will help to resist the tyrant husband:
- one must accept the fact that the husband is a tyrant and a manipulator, it is useless to remodel it, it will cause fury and aggression;
- one should not forgive her husband's disrespect and violence, he must be rebuffed, forced to reckon with himself, and if the answer is assault - it is necessary to part with such a husband;
- you need to keep your social circle, even if the relatives and friends of the spouse do not like your husband, it is these people in a difficult situation that can become support and support;
- it is necessary to know the telephone number of the social service in order to receive promptly the advice of psychologists to get rid of negative emotions and resolve conflicts.
Is a tyrant husband tolerated or rid of?
Sooner or later, any wife of a tyrant wonders whether to tolerate her further or divorce. The universal council in this case can not be, because it often happens that, despite the disgusting nature of her husband, there are warm feelings and memories between the spouses.
In addition, there are other reasons for preserving the family, which must be taken into account. First, it is the presence of children. In almost any case, the father will be better able to provide for the family than one mother. Another important factor is the status of a married woman, with whom not every lady decides to part.
How to get rid of her husband's tyrant?
If the life with the tyrant and the manipulator became unbearable, it is necessary to leave from it. Since such a husband, most likely, will not allow his wife to calmly leave, a woman needs to be prepared.
First, it is necessary
Very often, after some time, the tyrant husband begins to understand his mistakes and seeks to establish relationships and return his wife. The woman in this case should rely on common sense and experience. Perhaps the man learned the fact that his wife will not let himself be hurt and he can give a second chance.