Women's loneliness

The theme of female loneliness concerns, first of all, the women themselves. Compare the expressions "single woman" and "free man" - most likely, it is these words that most people subconsciously express the loneliness of a woman and a man. In the article we will consider the phenomenon itself, its manifestations and ways to overcome it.

The problem of female loneliness

This is a fairly common complaint of women of any age. The most interesting thing is that loneliness can be lamented even by married or relationship women. And the meaning in this expression, everyone can invest their own. For example: "I'm so lonely, I do not have a boyfriend." Or: "My husband does not understand me at all, I'm so lonely ...". Where does this problem come from?

Causes of female loneliness

  1. Complexes. Every female and, especially, male magazine prints on its pages a photo of ideal women. The same story with movies, clips, advertising. Actresses and singers invest time and money in their youth and beauty. It's no wonder that women, far from the glossy world, are incredibly difficult to sustain such competition. It is the comparison of oneself with immaculate beauties that generates complexes and uncertainty.
  2. Stereotypes. Often, women try to follow certain common opinions, and in the beginning of the relationship they try to play the role of either a bitch or a fatal lady. This also includes various "men love ..." - a stomach, blondes, complaisant and so on. Focusing on dubious truths, women play roles in relationships, and this does not make them either strong or long.
  3. Lack of meaningfulness. Why do I need to find a partner? For the peace of mom and other relatives? To keep up with or overtake girlfriends? So it is necessary? Unfortunately, many girls and women experience this public pressure on themselves. At some stage, public pushing is already becoming a desire - to arrange, finally, his personal life.

In our society, the tradition is still alive, according to which a woman can only take a relationship with a man. Such a installation is especially common among believers. Among Orthodox women, the book "Female loneliness" by Marina Kravtsova is popular, in which the author gives advice on how to arrange his own destiny. But not only faith plays a role in the women's worldview. Since childhood, girls listen to fairy tales about Cinderella and Snow White and take from them an example - how to live life in dreams of the prince coming. Need I say that such stereotypes are becoming obsolete in the modern world? Today, a woman has every opportunity to become an enviable princess herself. And when a person lives and realizes fully in all aspects, his personal life is arranged in the best way.