Contained

Contingent is a woman who lives at the expense of a man, and she has no other source of income. Unlike an ordinary housewife, she is completely under the authority of the sponsor and has no legal status. For a girl this is a kind of work where the employer is the chosen sponsor.

The sponsor can be free, and maybe married. Social status, and material security are not important. A woman-keeper can have a minibus driver, just gifts and maintenance will be of a smaller scale than that of an oligarch.

The reasons why girls become enough keepers. The most common ones are:

• Ladies do not want to work and are looking for a secure and carefree life. Or they want to achieve a higher social level in this way;
• the goal is to gain a foothold in the capital;
• the opportunity to live in a metropolis;
• difficult financial situation;
• for some, hunting for men is a kind of hobby;
• infantilism;
• dissatisfaction with family life. The woman in this way tries to solve two problems: find a lover and get material benefits.

Many girls and women believe that they are freeloaders and envy them. On the part of their lives - a permanent holiday, but only those who know its back side, understand that this is not every will survive.

Disadvantages of the position of the woman Alfonso

1. Contemporary can not allow himself to fall in love. As soon as she loves another man, the sponsor zarevnuet and expel her.
2. She can not have children.
3. Contingent, falling in love with her sponsor, dooms herself to torment. After all, then she will pester the lover with questions about marriage and children. But she was hired for other duties. Cases when the sponsor marries such a woman are single. In their circle, such an act is considered bad form. And without love there can not be true happiness.
4. Her life is not in her hands, it is disposed of by the paid man. A man can give her a friend for a few days popolzovatsya. Or it happens that the exchange of girlfriends is practiced at parties.
5. No one will tolerate her bad character and mood, so she has to suppress her emotions.

If you, despite all of the above, still said to yourself: "I will become a prisoner!", Then listen to some recommendations.

How to become a keeper, tips:

1. Your goal should be money, consider what happens as a kind of trip to work. Do not tell your landlord about your goals and future plans. The feeling that he is only a step in your destiny makes a man very irritable and tight-fisted, even with a family.
2. Clearly indicate for yourself the period of this life period.
3. It is immediately necessary to determine which category of men you are interested in, keep in mind that the life of a high-ranking woman's keeper is much more secure, but there the requirements for girls and competition are very high. Hundreds of girls with a body and appearance completely redecorated plastic surgeon to the tastes of the chosen wealthy man, and knowing by heart all of his habits and manners for years struggling to become a mistress and a custodian of a high-ranking person. But there is only one chance. The rest, it is necessary to be content with small or to sit up the chosen candidate.
4. The age of the owner is also important. The bigger, the better. But do not go to the extreme - the difference in age should be no more than 25 years. With a free man, you can imitate the novel and assume the possibility of a wedding, but in personal and financial relations less stability. Married - more grateful and stable, but in the relationship there is jealousy, mistrust and control.
5. Contingencies should be able to create prerequisites for the constant receipt of material wealth.
6. The money should be immediately transferred to the capital, which is no longer available for the owner.
7. Do not ask about the amount of his money and savings.

Whoever chooses to be a mistress, guardian or wife chooses each independently and only the right choice will make you happy.