The crisis in relations is absolutely normal. Every couple has ever encountered or will face it. And only the strongest, most patient, most understanding pairs will stand and stay together. If such an important stage has occurred in your life - do not look at this situation critically. Take it as a difficult but necessary test. And the outcome of the events and the consequences of the test depend only on each of you. Know, in any case, the difficulties will end, and the relationship will move to a new level! Grasp tightly by the hands, draw air into the lungs and stock up in respect to your loved one ... ACT !!!
How to survive a family crisis?
Sometimes it is very difficult to survive a family crisis. Life, monotony, indifference and lack of attention and time; inattention of a loved one and some of his shortcomings; global issues, problems, difficulties and quarrels; misunderstanding, disagreements, raising a child - and this is not a complete list of reasons for concern. Understand that both experience discomfort. Therefore, it is foolish to pretend that everything is good, but not doing anything at all.
How to survive the crisis in the family?
It is a mistake, also, to believe that your soul mate does not care about the "weather" of your relationship. Perhaps you are disappointed and doubt that everything that is happening to you is what you were aiming for. It is much easier, of course, to escape from the current situation, than to try to solve it. Do not think that people who have been living in a happy marriage for about 30 years have always been sweet. Your marriage is no worse and not much different. Once again I repeat: "Everything depends on only two"!
How to survive the crisis for 7 years?
Conditional boundaries vary between 7 and 9 years of living together. It is the most unpredictable and unstable. At this time, the couple usually brings up the baby, experiencing its age characteristics. In addition, moving along the career ladder adds responsibility and takes time.
Family psychology notes that the spouses compare their aspirations and dreams with reality. When reality does not coincide with desires, then an age crisis may begin in one of the spouses.
Let's discuss how to help a man survive the crisis.
To you and your second half it seems that life is monotonous - surprise. I want something new and unusual. At this stage, hold on to each other more than ever. Do something to unite you, the new, the joint. Find common activities and hobbies. Together spend time, socialize and walk in important places for you. Warm up the relationship with the past, pleasant, good memories - not reproaches and remarks.
Be grateful for everything, give a little freedom, make surprises, in a word - start to change attitudes with yourself, and you will manage to keep those relationships that are so dear to you!