Speaking of problems in the relationship with the opposite sex, both men and women usually mean quarrels and conflicts that flare up between them. And, perhaps, most often they happen because of dissatisfaction with their partner. And this leads to attempts to change, to alter it to meet your expectations. But is this possible? After all, we are so different from each other: appearance, habits, level of education and interests, and much more than that. What can we say about the differences between men and women that affect their relationship so much! So is not it better to understand them and try to understand each other? Otherwise, assessing the behavior of a partner by their standards, we will never be satisfied.
Love and loyalty in the relationship between man and woman
A man will not call his beloved every fifteen minutes and will not discuss her neighbor's attire with her, he will not go shopping with her, and if he does, then without any pleasure. And that does not mean that he does not love her. Simply, his love is expressed differently - specific actions. He will protect his woman, provide her with everything she needs and will prefer to give her money for shopping instead of accompanying her in shopping trips.
But he will have sex with pleasure. Sex is very important for any man, but they do not invest in making love as much romance and feelings as women do. For the stronger sex it is, first of all, the opportunity to relax and relieve tension. And maybe that's why, even being happy in a relationship with a loved one, he is able to change it - sincerely believing that this does not apply to her and does not mean anything to him. Women's treason is usually caused by dissatisfaction with the existing relationship or the desire to take revenge.
For women in general, the environment and the atmosphere, the internal state and mood are of great importance. Therefore, the male pressure often she perceives with displeasure, stating that he "only one of it is required." This is very offensive to a man and is perceived by him not as a rejection of sex at the moment, but as a rejection of himself.
Gender relations: who is in charge?
Feminism and profound changes in the behavior, social status and psyche of modern women equalized them with men, reversing the entire psychology of their relationship.
More often the representatives of the stronger sex play the role of a subordinate, dependent on the female will. A man does what the woman expects from him; his responsibility is minimal, and her wishes are always fulfilled. And at first it suits everybody. But such relations gradually destroy the personality of both and destroy their mutual affection. A man loses the ability to cope with personal burdens and everyday difficulties, trying to shift all responsibility to a woman. And she ceases to be desirable and sweet, becoming irritable, always criticizing and dissatisfied. And meanwhile they need to see each other in what they are by nature: in the woman - the muse and the inspirer, and in the man - the independent and strong person, the earner and the defender.
It happens that a woman is endowed with great personal power, and a man by nature is a slave. So let him not be the leader in their pair, after all it is much more important in mutual relations to follow the essence, psychology of the man and the woman. And then he will come forward where his strong hand and rational approach are needed, where it is required to solve serious male problems and achieve important goals. And she will support him and help him, respecting and giving freedom of action.
Only in this way, recognizing gender differences and at the same time the equal position of both, a man and a woman can build a happy relationship. After all, their goal is not a war because of these differences, but a combination of the two halves, which must complement each other.