Of course, you have repeatedly heard the expression that you can not love for something, but sometimes you want to ask your lover: "Do you know why I love you?". Even if you yourself did not think about the answer. After all, love always gives rise to the desire to think and talk about yourself. And even if world scientists regularly ask why we fall in love and, in general, for what people love each other, then it's not strange that these thoughts come to you. Let's and we will think (the scientists' explanations are too unromantic), for which one can love a man, and what can one say to a man to explain the strength of the feeling that spills you.
So, tell the guy the reasons: "why do I love you":
- because I love myself next to you. It sounds strange, but it's true. We often love ourselves and our condition next to someone. That's why we want so much that the object of adoration is always "at hand." We are not only in love with man, we are in love with the very concept of "we" as one;
- because you make me dream. A dream is a feeling of childhood, when life shines with perspectives and a sense of one's own strength. Mutual feeling revives the colors of life and the feeling of a fairy tale in which everything is possible;
- because you inspire me. Next to your favorite you want to be better. I want to surprise, develop - for this you are grateful to your half. In the end, your life becomes even more interesting from this;
- I'm interested next to you. Through love we will know this world better. He expands his boundaries, turning into an exciting and exciting adventure. Even ordinary rain becomes something magical when you look at it from the window, holding the hand of your loved one. You want to discover this world again, through the prism of your love;
- I feel that I am alive. Unrealized feelings (tenderness, love, care) often drive us depressed. We need to love, and he gives you this opportunity, that's why you are grateful. The feeling of gratitude is extremely important for every person, and it, like a magnet, draws into your life even more love and happiness;
- because with you I feel special. Why I love you, it's for the opportunity to be unique, a little stupid, a little weak, a little crazy, but always loved. You're happy to be yourself;
- because with you I'm not afraid. You're not afraid that tomorrow will be bad weather, that the teacher / director will be out of sorts, etc. You worry only by trifles: whether he will like your new dress, whether the dinner will be possible and whether you will have time to meet him. But this is a pleasant excitement;
- next to you I want to give. Human nature is such that we always get more satisfaction from the process of bestowal. You want to give and give, and this fills you even more with love. You receive even more, and this process intoxicates you;
- because I always dreamed about you. It is proved that those women, who in childhood clearly realized the ideal of a man, quickly "know" it.
However, even if you dreamed of something abstract and vague, when meeting with your beloved, it seems to you that he was always the subject of your dreams; - because you do not need to do anything, so that I love you. They love for nothing, and you like to realize that your love is just that.
Asking why we love a person, the main thing is to finish with this thought. All its merits, which we value so much (and in your loved one, even the smallest dignity is judged on the maximum scale) is a subject of our pride, but you meet another person with a similar set, this does not guarantee the occurrence of feelings. Just enjoy the feeling of love and be happy!