Communication is a complex process of establishing contacts between individuals and whole groups. Without communication, human society simply will not exist. Since the very appearance of the first man, it has become the cause and pledge of the emergence of society and civilization. Modern people can not do without communication in any sphere of their lives and activities, regardless of whether a person loves solitude or a company, an extrovert or an introvert. Let's try together to find the reasons for such a unique phenomenon as communicability, and to answer the question of why a person needs to communicate.
The role of communication in human life
The answer to the question of why a person communicates brings us the history of primitive society. It is from the communication that the first people produced by gestures, and human speech developed, that concepts and designations of objects appeared, and later the writing. It is through communication and the emergence of society, human society, established a kind of rules for communication between people.
The importance of communication in human life can not be overemphasized. It has a huge influence on the formation of the human psyche, its proper development. Communication between people helps them to exchange information, to perceive and understand each other, to learn from experience and share their. Communication in a person's life distinguishes him from other biological beings on this planet.
Why communicate?
The need for a person in communication is determined by his natural life and constant presence in society, whether it be a family, a collective of employees, a school or a student class. If a person were deprived of the opportunity to communicate from birth, he could never grow into a social person, civilized and culturally developed, reminding a person only outwardly.
This is proved by numerous cases of so-called "Mowgli people", deprived of human communication in early childhood or immediately at birth. All the systems of the organism developed in such individuals is quite normal, but here the psyche is very delayed in development, and even stopped altogether because of the lack of experience with people. It is for this reason that we understand why a person needs to communicate with other people.
The art of communicating with people
It would seem that if communication is quite natural for all people, then each of us must freely contact and be able to do it. However, some people sometimes have a fear of communicating with people or, in other words, social phobia. This fear occurs usually in adolescence, the most difficult in a person's life. If the first conscious entry into society passes negatively, then in the future the person will have problems communicating with people.
Skills of communication with people are acquired with age and here the most important thing is to master this art. The ancient commandments of communication can help in this:
- Communicating with a person, do it the best way, in your opinion.
- Show respect to the person with whom you are talking.
- Trust the one with whom you communicate.
With familiar people, we usually do not have any problems in communication, we know well how they react to certain words, cues and news. But talking to strangers, it is worth doing it always on the positive side, do not show any negative, always be benevolent. Talk with a smile, but try to ensure that your words and phrases are appropriate. Look at the person in the eyes with a clear and benevolent look, show sincere interest and attention to the interlocutor. If you can not overcome yourself and do all of the above for one reason or another, it's better just to avoid contacting a person.