When men try to understand women and they do not get anything done - this is normal, we do not require them to understand our high impulses. But how to understand yourself, how to determine the motives of the same "impulses" - this is the topic for productive reasoning. Let's try to understand the psychology of girls and learn to answer to yourself the question "why?"
In Love
Has it ever happened to you that you fall in love and do not realize that you are in love? Did it ever happen that you lost someone you really liked, only because you did not recognize your favor in time? All this is a woman's mind, which destroys us. The psychology of girls in love, alas, or fortunately, excludes the presence of any thoughts, allotting all the forces to violent emotions , indescribable words. Let's see how to determine if you are in love:
1. Your potential boyfriend gives you flowers, candy and plush toys, in response to this you:
- all with gratitude accept, take it for granted - you are not yet in love, but simply allow yourself to love;
- try to please in response something and him - carefully listen to his words and stories and give gifts "in the subject" - you are really in love or very generous.
2. Take the initiative:
- themselves call and offer to meet - probably this is a sign of the psychology of a girl in love;
- instinctively look for urgent matters, postponing meetings for later - comments are not required;
- plan - being in love, you will start to miss the conversation about how it would be good to go there, then visit something, go there, and so on;
- you are interested - notice an interest in topics that you have not been occupied with before, when "he" tells you about them.
Language of the body
In addition to the psychology of the behavior of girls, there is also the body language, which is very eloquent, if you look closely.
Signs of love in the body language:
- open posture - legs slightly apart, arms free (not crossed), thorax stretched;
- a look uninhibited, constantly fixed on the one you are supposedly in love with;
- you feel how from your body comes a crazy, unusual energy.
Parting
A separate topic for reasoning and studying oneself is the psychology of girls after parting. Do you feel a sense of relief, joy after parting?
Of course, you cry in a pillow, complain to friends, but inside you rejoices a sense of relief, freedom. You finally got rid of the relationships that aggravate you.
If a woman is happy after the break, initiated by herself, this is normal. You were morally ready for this, with your ex you already have almost nothing pleasant to associate. Relief is a normal reaction to getting rid of unnecessary things.
But in the case of a sudden rupture initiated by your mate - a sense of joy and liberation speaks about some of the nuances of your psyche . This usually happens with women who in their childhood were not lucky with their parents. A stern father, who was afraid of a little girl, became an incentive to create her personal world, where no one is. Instinctively, you
Then it says that you are destroying your relations yourself, being inside in a pleasant expectation of the coming break. Such a reaction, most likely, should be discussed with a psychologist. But do not despair: for several sessions of psychotherapy, you will be removed from the block of childhood injuries and you will start your new relationship with the male sex from a clean slate.
The behavior of women can not be explained even by women themselves. You know this perfectly by yourself. Is it worth in this case to blame men for misunderstanding, and thus, to unscrew the nuts in your relationship?