Now is the time when people think that freedom is a value, and love is not very. Therefore, many people live a civil marriage, as it is customary to call neatly cohabitation. They seem to be together, but seemingly, and everyone is free. Tired - broke up, do not go to the registry office, make a divorce. As if, at the break with a loved one, the hardest thing is to go to the registry office for a certificate of divorce.
Very often a woman enters into a civil marriage, because she wants to, but does not know how to really get married (in the sense, officially, with the wedding and registration). She expects that a man who has become accustomed to her will want to make relations official. And her hopes are confirmed by the fact that sometimes some men actually do that. But it happens rarely, because the idea of an official marriage is not attractive to all men.
Or, probably, it will be correct to say that for the majority it is all the same attractive, but it is better not here and now, but somewhere else and later. Why should you spend your youth, these golden years, on a boring marriage: pots, diapers, quarrels with your wife, yelling baby, lack of money and leave with your mother-in-law in the country? When it is much more pleasant to "just live": you have no children, no problems. The woman that you like - here she is, at your fingertips, she is nice and helpful (she still hopes for a stamp in her passport and seeks to prove that she is what she needs), no need for children, mother-in-law, moreover. Sometimes a man agrees with the children if the cohabitation has turned out to be successful: just to keep the stats of the quo. It's all because many men, entering into a so-called civil marriage, do not want to marry at all. What for? They have a free (or very cheap) full board, which includes sexual services.
Why does a man not want to marry a female partner?
But why do girls agree to this? I really want to appear to everyone and myself the most modern and independent? It would be better to think that the guy, having entered into a cohabitation of 25 years, will safely finish his years in ten, becoming a good professional and an independent person, he will want to change his life, throwing out old trampled slippers and a former, podnadoevshuyu mistress. And here he is, young, handsome, self-sufficient, with a car bought for savings, thanks to cohabitation money, goes looking for a princess, and his former "civil wife" just remains - biting his elbows, crying in the pillow and asking: why the man does not want marry her, such a devoted concubine?
Therefore, she does not want to be a female partner. And in 35 is not the first freshness, he will find better, and love ... Well, well, love has passed ...
That is, simply speaking, the roommate does not want to marry, because he already has everything now that a girl could offer him only after the wedding, and a little more: the right to get up and leave when she is bored or turned up something better.
What to do if a man does not want to marry, but insists on a "civil marriage"? It would be better to politely advise you to turn your lip back and decide what exactly he wants: marriage or "freedom." In the first case - there is an official marriage, it protects the rights of any person, including possible children, and, so be it, the girl agrees to consider the proposal. In the second - he is already free. Why change anything?
There are many reasons why a man does not want to marry a female partner, but the main thing, perhaps, is that he does not want to change anything.