Indifference and indifference are the worst vices of today's life. Recently, we are so often confronted with this, that for us this behavior of people, unfortunately, becomes the norm. Almost every day you can see the indifference of people. Have you ever thought about where it comes from?
Causes of indifference
Often, indifference is a way of protecting a person, an attempt to close from a brutal reality. For example, if a person is often humiliated or hurt by offensive phrases, he will try to avoid negative emotions and will not go into contact with others. That's why a person will unconsciously try to show an indifferent kind, so that they do not touch him.
But over time, the following trend may develop: a person will have the problem of human indifference, because indifference will become his inner state, not only in relation to himself, but also to others.
We are not killed by hatred, but by human indifference.
Why does indifference kill?
Indifference kills in man all life, this is callous heart and lack of spirituality. At the same time, the person does not bear responsibility for this behavior, and this is perhaps the worst thing.
Indifference is dangerous because it can gradually develop even into a mental illness. Causes of indifferent behavior can be long-term use of psychotropic drugs, mental illness, use of drugs and alcohol. Also, a sense of indifference can arise after a lot of stress or shock - for example, the loss of a loved one. In teenagers, cruelty and indifference can develop due to a lack of attention of parents, from a lack of love, because of violence from the family.
In psychology, the term alexithymia , the obsessive behavior of a person, is used. Such people can not understand their emotions, and they are indifferent to the sensations and experiences of other people. They do not know what pity and compassion are. Alexithymia can be both an innate diagnosis, and the consequence of a psychological trauma. Scientists claim that indifference is not treated.
Examples of indifference can be given a great many. From a conversation with a veteran of the Great Patriotic War, Kuklina Innokentiy Ivanovich: "I once walked through the center of Irkutsk. Suddenly, suddenly, I felt sick and fell right in the middle of the street. For a long time everyone was avoiding me, throwing phrases like "here is my grandfather getting drunk in the middle of the day ..". But I fought for these people. Terrible time. "
We can talk endlessly about indifference, and this particularly affects us when questions concern our relatives. Then the pain becomes incredibly acute.
Indifference leads to the destruction of the personality, hinders the harmonious existence of man. Therefore, it is so important to properly educate your children, your younger brothers and sisters. It is necessary from the very childhood to teach the little ones of sympathy and kindness so that they can empathize and support others.
It is always important to remember that sometimes the life of another person can depend on your behavior, and it does not matter who you are - a doctor, a driver or just a person passing by.