Every woman wants to be desirable for her man, and therefore the question of how to please a man in bed takes a lot of place in our heads. After all, understand what a man needs in bed and what he's waiting for, oh, how not easy. So let's get this sorted out!
What do they like?
- How do you like a man in bed? Find out what pleases him. Ask the partner about which of your actions give him the greatest pleasure. The desires of men in bed do not always strike the imagination, and most of them just want a little more attention to their person. Modern ladies for some reason think that it is not necessary to take care of the sensations of a man, and focus only on their pleasure. Try to think twice about whether your partner is pleased with what you are doing, or he does not feel any emotions. Mutual satisfaction is more pleasant than using a partner as an initiative sex toy.
- What do men want in bed? Obviously, they want to have fun, but a woman should help in this. Do not always rely on the will of a partner, sometimes it's worth taking the reins in your gentle hands. A man with pleasure will give you such a right and will be pleased, since by this act you show that you want sex as much as he does. Feel free to show your passion and desire, it's damn tempting.
- What does a man prefer in bed? The ideal mistress should be not only affectionate and active, but also gentle. Do you like kisses and gentle words? And why do you think that your man is so indifferent to such a manifestation of feelings? He will not mind at all if you take more time for kisses, and you do not need to restrict yourself to the face and neck - there are many erogenous zones on your big boy's body. And of course, tell him how wonderful he is, and how good you are with him. Do not forget to make compliments to the man in bed. Try, affectionate words are really capable of doing miracles.
- What do men love in bed? They love women, and they want them to love themselves. Now it's not about caressing yourself in front of a loved one, although nobody tries to try it to you. It means the love of oneself, of your own body. Well, how can you like a man in bed, if in his head constantly spinning dastardly thoughts like "ah, I have a small chest, now he will see and be disappointed" or "what a nightmare, I have a terrible stomach, I urgently need to hide so that he does not see." Ladies, accept yourself as you are, be sure of your sexuality, and your man will believe it and no silicone blondes will be needed. Sexuality is not in appearance, but in the head - what you think of yourself, this you are.
- How do you like a man in bed? Do you remember what men love with their eyes? So what's up? Wear beautiful underwear, high heel shoes, etc. By the way, many men say that they like it when there is some wardrobe left on the lady, for example, stockings, a short, bursting, vest, but not underwear.
What do men fear in bed?
You may be surprised, but the set of bed fears of our alpha males is quite large. From fear of comparing their dignity and skills with previous lovers to the fear of being the girl first. Among the most common fears were also such:
- not willingness to have sex, no excitement;
- overexcitement and as a consequence, too fast completion of amorous pleasures;
- simulation of partner's orgasm;
- the horror of commitments, especially when a woman starts claiming rights to a man and his territory after the first night;
- fear of unplanned pregnancy;
- fear of being rejected;
- fear of not meeting the ideas of a woman (any standards) and so on.
Such are the vulnerable and sometimes irresponsible men of ours. It is worth remembering this fact and trying to rid the partner of his fears. Well, why do you need a boy hiding in the corner of the bed?