Intimate relationships in married life play, though not the main, but very important role. Sexual intimacy has a positive effect on relationships, making them stronger, more trusting, and close. Also gives a physical discharge, removing sexual arousal.
Often, the passion between the spouses begins to fade because of the monotony over the long years of marriage. The absence of sexual intimacy due to the unwillingness of her husband for weeks, and even months, will bother any woman. Sex is not only the satisfaction of physical needs, but also affects the emotional side of family life. After all, every fair sex must feel welcome.
What are the reasons and what to do if the husband does not want a wife?
Reflecting on this issue, it is worth noting that the reasons why a husband does not want a wife are very many and all this individually. However, it is worthwhile to consider the main and most common of them, as well as to understand how to solve this problem.
Often, many women in this case begin to think that her husband had a mistress. This option, of course, is not excluded and is not uncommon. A lot of men go to treason because of the loss of interest in their spouse. After all, women often stop looking after themselves because of work and household chores, and a homemade robe and an untidy look can hardly cause a man to have a sexual attraction. Therefore, he goes to look for an attractive girl on the side with whom he can meet his physical needs.
Although the fact that a husband does not want his wife does not always say that he has a mistress. Constant stress and problems at work, which a man may not tell at home, can also affect the frequency of his sexual desires.
A rare, but important reason why a representative of the stronger sex does not have a need for physical intimacy, has health problems. They can be associated with the reproductive system, which directly affects the sexual function of the male body, as well as with general malaise, which also leads to reluctance due to pain or discomfort.
It often happens that over the years lived together, the sex life has become too boring, there is not enough variety, passion and pleasure. Thus, a man can lose attraction to his second half.
How to make a husband want a wife?
Sometimes the reasons for the unwillingness of an intimate affinity for a man lie in himself. However, that the husband always wanted a wife, it is necessary to do at least something that can be influenced. It is necessary to monitor your appearance not only on weekdays, getting used to work. On weekends, the man also wants to admire his wife in the home. Hiking in the beauty salon and gym will not be superfluous. It is necessary to develop and learn something new, to find useful hobbies and hobbies , therefore, a man will begin to show more interest in his beloved.
An important role is played by the domestic atmosphere. Scandals, resentment and reproaches do not like anyone, because after such an emotional negative about romance and speech can not be.
What if the husband does not want a wife during pregnancy?
Waiting for a child is a wonderful period for both spouses, although it is not without some difficulties. A woman at this time requires more attention and affection. A man is immersed in his thoughts and feelings of upcoming paternity, and also because of fatigue at work can not pay enough attention, which is necessary for his wife. The father of the family worries about the state of his wife and is afraid of doing some harm to the baby during making love. In this case, psychologists advise me to calmly talk with my half and decide on the poses that will not harm neither the future baby, nor mother.