All friends in pairs ... So we are arranged that we dream of a big and pure love, but upbringing does not allow us to get acquainted with the first, because it is not decent, below our dignity, etc. etc. Why did it happen that a woman has all the levers of managing her own life, but does not want to take everything in her hands?
What prevents to get acquainted with a man?
There are a number of reasons why we remain lonely and can not find our happiness:
- diffidence;
- lack of time at a very fast pace of life;
- reluctance to put up with other people's shortcomings or habits;
- we do not know where you can meet and how.
If the first three reasons are quite amenable to a small adjustment through various publications such as "The Path to Success" or "How to Communicate with People", then the last point has a definite solution. Learn how to communicate and find places where you can meet a young man, you can without problems.
Where to find a good man?
The first and most important thing: if you knowingly believe that you will not succeed, you can be sure that this will happen. So, under the motto "I'm the most charming and attractive" in full parade we leave:
- To the store. Yes, yes, it was in the supermarket. You pretend that you took him for a sales consultant and ask for help, then with a smile you can apologize and still ask for advice. Do not be lazy to look into his trolley, its contents will tell you whether it makes sense to continue the conversation (the presence of diapers or explicit attributes from the "female list" will give you a red signal). Or maybe he just bought dumplings and it became clear that there was nobody to cook for him? In this case, gently hint that you also like pelmeni, but prefer to cook them yourself. Well, how can a man resist?
- In a good gym . Serious fitness center, with a good reputation - this is a great place where you can meet a decent man. Ask him to help with the projectile or ask him to suggest how to do the exercise correctly, do not forget to make a compliment! Very often with fitness centers there are tea bars, this is also a good place where you can get acquainted with an interesting and wealthy man.
- In the cafe. Unobtrusively ask about how to feed here. Ask to tell what exactly delicious, sit down at a nearby table - so you can avoid an embarrassing situation if the man is already waiting for someone.
- A great place to meet a man is a "smoking room" . Just ask for a light, smoothly start the conversation and do not forget to say that he has good taste, since he smokes this brand of cigarettes (no matter what, the main thing is to make a compliment).
- In large business centers it's very easy to get acquainted. You do not even have to look for a special place to get acquainted with a decent man, it's enough just to accidentally drop a pile of papers near him. Well-bred man will help you
collect everything, well, then - the business of technology. - You can get acquainted without paying special attention to the place to meet a man. It's enough just to start a conversation, as if you've known each other for a hundred years, and then laughing to confess that you've made your name.
- It is important not only the place where you can find a good man, but also time . In a night club, you can hardly get into a serious relationship. But it's very possible to unobtrusively start a conversation during a lunch break in a cafe, but suddenly you'll have supper together?
Do not forget: if you already decided to look for a place where to get acquainted with a man, to begin work on yourself! Get rid of the words-parasites, rehearse your actions if you slope and get stuck. The first acquaintance often determines the development of relationships, so clothes on you should be at least not vulgar (the same applies to make-up). Any man always decides everything himself, so help him decide to meet you!