How on the profile in social networks to recognize a man who will make your life unbearable

In order not to expose your life to danger or not to regret the time spent on a date spent aimlessly, it is enough to carefully study the account of the man you liked in the social network.

Regularly conducted studies of psychologists confirm that modern couples are more often acquainted on the Internet than in a cafe, office or nightclub. They also recognize that this method of contact with potential partners prefer to choose emotionally unstable and unreliable men - chronic losers, womanizers, gigolos, and even maniacs.

1. Pictures with a bare chest

If a picture is chosen as the "avatar", which could easily appear on the page of an erotic magazine for women, then the owner of the page is a narcissist who is not even going to hide that the main love of his life is himself. He needs new love victories to prove to himself an irresistibility. After spending a few nights with the girl, he will leave her without regret for the sake of a new passion, not really caring about her experiences. "Do you like adventures?" - this is how the adherents of "nudity" usually begin dating.

2. In a quiet whirlpool ...

Acquaintance with it always begins more than rosy - there will necessarily be common themes and interests, which you can talk with him literally for hours. After a week or two after the first dialogue, the interlocutor suddenly begins to behave inadequately: throw messages or completely ignore the correspondence for days. This is the policy of manipulators: having tied the interlocutor to their own adequate communication, they begin to show their nature in full glory.

3. Unrecognized genius

He necessarily has a creative profession or hobby: writing books, modeling, drawing or playing on stage. At the same time, his hobby does not bring any income at all or hardly enough for a living. Among his former girlfriends are extremely ungrateful and close-minded people who could not appreciate the fullness of his talent. In the new beloved, he sees a muse, which flattery, that she devotes poems or songs. However, if she stops singing odes to the boyfriend, he quickly takes it to the number of dumb majority.

4. Too active volunteer

He participates in all the rallies, rallies, protests and flash mobs that take place in his city and are associated with charity or helping people and animals. His page consists of solid reposts with petitions, videos and posts on the same topic. But real volunteers can not physically manage several areas of assistance at the same time. Hence, the new acquaintance creates the illusion of activity or simply wants his compassion to be appreciated by the girls he likes.

5. A fan of pickup or "Man State" courses

Among men as a virus, two ideologies spread - the use of professional techniques for seducing women or completely refusing any respect for them. In groups such as the "Men's State", aggressively minded individuals are assembled, placing women of the fair sex on the level of domestic slaves. They believe that women need to be controlled, physically and morally motivated to take the necessary actions - for example, sex or the birth of a child. Visitors to all sorts of trainings on pickup from them do not lag behind: they pour out stereotyped phrases and strive to put the girl in bed on the first date.

6. Muscular or fitness guru

When the passion for a healthy lifestyle turns into a mania, a man puts any, the most beautiful relationship with a girl, lower classes in a rocking chair and protein cocktails. He is much more interested in the number of calories in a salad or a new method of building muscle mass than the problems of the second half. Such people are waiting for the partner to accept his daily routine and lifestyle, which is far from being available to every fair sex.

7. Frick

Self-expression, of course, should cause respect, but everything is good in moderation. If the number of tattoos, piercings, bright clothes or strange hobbies exceeds reasonable limits, others begin to experience discomfort when dealing with such a poseur. Psychologists are sure that people who are afraid to seem incredibly boring or really are eager to constantly shock the society are.

8. Constant monetary difficulties

A man of this type can not meet every girl, as they knowingly are engaged in the search for a certain type of victims. It is the victims, because the page of the new acquaintance will scream about his financial difficulties. Requests to put money on the phone, help with the creation of their own business or the development of a supposedly win-win enterprise just go in the face while studying his account? So, he saw a well-paying lady in front of him, who could well fix his financial situation.

9. Rallies of night clubs and festivals

90% of the photographs in his profile are reports from closed clubs, Coachella and Burning Man. He is ready to go to the other end of the world for the fashionable party of his favorite DJ - and this is not the worst. The lifestyle of the clubbers is very frivolous: they enter into spontaneous sexual relations, indulge in drugs and never know where they can wake up tomorrow. The type of the reckless guy is good if you want light relationships for a couple of nights, but there is no point in waiting for stability from him.

10. Office Romantic

In the network, he happens only during working hours and never responds to messages in the early morning or late night. There are no photos in his account, or they are made in such a way that they are not visible to the person. When trying to find out the interlocutor, it will be possible to find out more closely that he works as a manager, a banker, an insurer - and no more. Such men are most often married, and social networks use for easy flirting or dating for sex, writing off with girls through a fake profile on any of the popular sites.