As a rule, it is customary to talk about a man, morally immature, that he is infantile.
Psychologists define infantilism as the presence of childish traits in the behavior of an adult who is characterized by immature social behavior. Relations with an infantile man are difficult to build, because it is not independent.
Signs of infantilism in men
- He does not like his work, he does not receive moral or material satisfaction from her, but for years he pulls this "strap", constantly complaining and promising to find another job, without actually taking any action.
- Many women do not understand how to behave with an infantile man, if he can much and correctly argue and promise, but almost never fulfills the promised. Such a man can make appointments , but not be on them under different pretexts, more or less believable.
- Constant communication with my mother (calls, correspondence, constant visits, endless consultations with her on any, even the smallest question, etc.)
- Most women do not understand how to live with an infantile man, if he does not hesitate to demonstrate his helplessness and inability to understand everyday issues.
- If there is no mother nearby, and he still decided to build a relationship with a woman, he is looking for a life partner based on the "son-mother" relationship, hoping that she will take care of all the issues and problems, as her mother did, and he will be an obedient husband-son.
Infantile man: his signs are quite recognizable. As a rule, this is a person who is ready to live all his life in a certain holiday of Obedience, which was once created for him by a mother with strong will power and tempered by life's troubles. She "knows best" what her son needs and dictates her will all her life, especially since the son unquestioningly accepts this "eternal" protection. Often such mothers independently seek brides and wives for their overgrown - "boys."
Do not think that the infantile man is simple in communication: it is very difficult for him, therefore, quite often, if this man attracts a woman with something, she has a question how to fix his crooked consciousness of a strong-willed mother and begin to live normally with him.
This task is difficult and not always solvable, if the man himself does not feel this need and does not understand that life needs to be radically changed.